A social worker presented a reputable mother with a notice of Apprehension that stated her child is at risk of emotional injury, sexual abuse and/or cruel and unusual treatement or punishment.
The Apprehension notice was due to an unfounded allegation of sexual assult and/or sexual abuse of a minor.
A 15 year old girl was trying to get pregnant because her best friend was pregnant, who is also a young 14 year old. The mother in question didnt want the child to be pregnant so she acted promptly, she gave advice to the child and was received with deception. The teen was sleeping around dispite the good advice, and refused birth control. Seeing this was a dead end the mother pretended to agree with the teen's choice and provided preventative measures in the form of placebo effect by providing counterfeit male generative fluid (semen) in the form of egg white.
The child is fine, happy and not pregnant, but the social worker still wants to be involved. You be the judge.
2006-09-10 18:33:20 · 16 answers · asked by gurlybiz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel for the mother, she no doubt wanted to protect her child... but wat a weird way of doing it... social services should stay out!
2006-09-13 13:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by sandrawiltzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course the social worker MUST be involved, at the very least, the social worker as well as child protective services, it's unbelievable what some irresponsible "parents" will allow their very young kids to be exposed to, why do people such as this woman have children if they won't provide a suitable environment for the sake of the child.
The social worker is 100% correct and should stay on top of this case (by all means.) Perhaps somebody else should look after this child, how amazing, this happens the way it does, what is a teen, (child 14 or 15 yrs old doing sleeping around) a good parent would never let that happen, if I was the mother that would only happen over my dead body!!
(I think a lot of people, including myself are confused with the story, you should be a bit more specific, as to how the mother & social worker are doing and that counterfeit male fluid, so bizarre
2006-09-10 18:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TOTALLY agree with Rob. And your question "got lost" at "Seeing this was a dead end the mother pretended to agree with the teen's choice and provided preventative measures in the form of placebo effect by providing counterfeit male generative fluid (semen) in the form of egg white." So was the teen sleeping with her mother? If not, how did the Mother give her the Semen? Did she tell her daughter it was to get her pregnant? Cause if it was, that's messed up. And YES, the Protective Services need involved. Raw eggs can carry Salmonella and could have possibly killed the young girl and who would have thought to look for Salmonella (a food born / feces related illness) inside a girls vagina? Not many doctors.
The child is fine, happy and not pregnant . . . so when does a teenage girl who wants a baby go "overnite" to being without child and happy? Sorry, sounds odd to me.
While I think the Mother WAS ONLY LOOKING OUT FOR HER DAUGHTER, and I really think she was probably at wits end (and WHO COULD blame her), she could have handled this better, perhaps by taking her daughter to a home for unwed mothers, telling her daughter she would HAVE to leave home if she had the child, SOMETHING to make her grow up. Even MAKE her give it up for adoption, since she wasn't of age, all these things would have brought a new realization to this young girls eyes that the world doesn't revolve just around her anymore.
2006-09-10 18:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why does the social worker want to be involved sounds like the social worker needs to go back to school does she not know about teen pregnancy and how to help STOP them not to encourage them why didn't the mother take her and get a birth control shot that way she would prevent a baby but still allow her child unfortunately to have unprotected sex didn't the social worker read brochures on aids std gonarea etc there are too many disease out there now to have unprotected sex at any age the social worker is in the wrong good luck hope you report the social worker to her boss or a higher authority
2006-09-10 18:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by christy b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whoa! What a way to deceive a young mind!
The means is downright deceptive, but the mother only wants the best for her child.
If the social worker wants to do his job, it should be more on counseling and not apprehending the mother for having the best intentions for her child.
2006-09-10 18:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um mom ****** up that was not the way 2 handle it.
she should have found her daughter some help, which in turn would have helped her out.
lying 2 ur child is never the answer. helping them 2 see the truth of the situation is the answer.
she could have took her 2 some workshops 4 new teen mothers.
she could have had some teen mothers talk 2 her daughter.
she could have had her daughter put in counceling.
she could have grounded her child n in such taken away the option of having sex.
she could have talked 2 the childs dr who could have helped talk 2 the child.
she could have talked 2 the school councelor 2 get help with the child.
there r many option but that placebo bs is just that bull **** n any form of lying is abuse.
2006-09-10 18:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i'm a little confused. how did she provide this counterfeit semen? i mean if the girl was actually having sex how do u provide this? i mean overall the whole preventing the pregnancy thing good for her but i just don't understand.
2006-09-10 18:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by a very happily married woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe in the system taking over your parenthood, in their so call protection, they loose the childten, like little Willia, who vanished from the face of the earth about 5 years ago. Others get killed by their foster parents. Biological parents shoud take care of their children at all cost.
2006-09-10 18:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so, the mother said OK, you wanna get pregnant? Here, I'll help you, and gave her egg whites to put in her? Social Worker, get involved.
2006-09-10 18:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by rera1397 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this situation screams out for a social worker.
2006-09-10 18:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Rvn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone with poor parenting skills to me...should the social worker be involved??? yes...get that kid away from where ever they are living that fourteen yearolds are pregnant and thinking it is cool.
2006-09-10 18:38:35 · answer #11 · answered by bryan s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋