If a person kills one of your family ,then they should feel the revenge for thier actions. it's a simple and normal human thing and it's fair, agree?
2006-09-10 18:31:42 · 18 answers · asked by not coming back 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Politics
agree
2006-09-10 18:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it's normal to feel that way, but it certainly is not healthy.
If you act on revenge you are hurting your own soul. And where does it stop???
This is exactly what started the mafia in sicily, it was started through "vendettas" and then the vendettas became organized one family group against another. Or the Hatfields and the McCoys in this country.
If you engage in revenge you are truly hurting yourself more than the other person.
Being fully honest with yourself and forgiving ( or at least not acting on revenge ) are the only ways to rid yourself or those awful feelings.
Forgiveness is not done for the other person, it is done for ONESELF. It really has nothing to do with the other person at all, but with just putting it behind you and getting on with your OWN LIFE.
2006-09-10 19:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by inzaratha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 02:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by treiber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is associated with anger.
However, I do agree. To a degree, Revenge is an act of "Making right in the world" Do unto others. An eye for an eye. You know? The **ACT** of it is very unhealthy, but the idea isn't.
Many times it spirals us down into an insane, unending, vicious cycle.
2006-09-10 18:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree to some point. If someone killed one of my family members then my natural reaction would be an eye for an eye but it is up to the law to be the other eye not ours. I can relate to your feelings but don't ever do anything that would hurt the ones that love you the other person would eventually get his or hers. Things always make a full circle.
2006-09-10 18:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kristy C 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Anger is an emotion--it is a way to express how you feel. Revenge is an action brought on by anger. They are not synonymous. Revenge is an obsession--it consumes you. I don't find it healthy at all, not to mention if you take revenge on someone who killed someone in your family, and you get caught, you go to jail.
2006-09-10 18:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is a dish best served cold, but it should be reserved as the last option. The very last straw. Revenge is like a delicate sword, once you use it, you MUST draw blood. And if a person killed one of your family, then you have to kill him and his family, only fair.
2006-09-10 18:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pluck That Chicken 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i stongly believe in an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth but do you know how much killing would be going on in this country if this was to happen.we have enough deaths as it is and adding insult to injury would not be good.i was always taught TWO WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT and that is what i taught my children now adults.
2006-09-10 18:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by queen4clewis 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If its healthy... might not be... you have immediate gratification... yes..BUT
In the long run who knows what the consequences are...
If its fair... maybe not...
its human nature to want to revenge. Its divine to forgive.
For man alone its IMPOSSIBLE. But with Christ NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
2006-09-10 18:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Karina Maq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anger is an emotion, not revenge. Revenge is the way one reacts to to source of anger...
2006-09-10 18:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Angela M 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ask Captain Ahab.
2006-09-10 18:43:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋