he said he didn't love me anymore but doesn't want me to move out and still wants me to sleep in the same bed with him. and he loves my little girl
2006-09-10 18:07:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave any way just tell him you can not stay with a peson that does not share the same feelings. and if you stay with him this will confuse your daughter more because if you guys start dating other people she will wonder why even more because you are not together it is just best to leave. talk to him ask him why you should stay and why he wants you stay. He may have issues of just being alone. My aunt in law is this way she hates to be alone. She is single and when she dates someone for a little bit they are moved into her house.
2006-09-10 18:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be mid-life crisis. You two need serious marriage counselling. Meanwhile, if he declares he's lost his love for you, & he'll still let you stay & sleep with him, & probably have sex with him, & cook & clean for him, & take care of your little girl. Well, isn't he just being too too kind to you?
Absence makes the heart grow fonder you know. Move out for awhile, & take your little girl too if you can. Maybe he'll find a new place in his heart for you, & in the meantime, you can keep your self-respect.
God Bless!
2006-09-11 01:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he didn't love u bcause he knew u very love him!!! Take a break your heart now b4 more sad!!! Wake up!!! Go to a toilet then open a shower and cry until you heart better...Show him u can be in this world by no him!!! Show him your more stronger!!! And then he will know u can stop to love him!!! G Luck... :-)
2006-09-11 02:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by nonglnalak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt be saying conflicting things You poor thing..I guess youre not married huh? Ugh. Up to you but can you live like that? Knowing theres no love on his part? I probably wouldnt if I could afford to go...It is up to you. Think of whether you will feel used in this situation. Is he saying this alot? Think carefully and talk to him more before deciding Good luck.
2006-09-11 01:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out find away to deal with it, Just remember you cannot makes someone to love you if he doesn't . Any way if he want just to keep you , he do not loves, either he is Obsess with you, or want to use you. Find away to deal with it and tell him that you will move out because you need to be loved, as you deserve. there's someone out there for you , who will love you more.
2006-09-11 01:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married to him? Is he your little girl's father? Who is paying for the home? Maybe he is just going thru the change of life. weigh all the facts and then decide. Your child is the real important fact.
2006-09-11 03:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by short stack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of a relationship is that? If he doesn't love you anymore, kick him out and find someone who does./will.
2006-09-11 01:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone who can give as much love to you as you give to them. There is nothing harder than unrequited love. I suggest getting out of this situation before it gets messy. If he's not in love with you......how long before he falls for someone else......would that be arkward?????
Find someone who deserves you, never settle for left over emotions.
2006-09-11 01:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stay with someone who doesn't love you.
You deserve to find someone who loves you as much as you love them.
I'd be leaving now.
2006-09-11 01:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him to leave. If he doesn't love you, why would you put yourself through this heartache? You deserve better and so does your child.
2006-09-11 01:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋