what should i do I've been married for two years but i still think about my ex. and i think i have feeling ?

Answer 1

Did you marry your current husband to move on from your ex? If you did, then you are in for a heap of problems. You should realize that your ex has probably moved on and is not thinking about you. Concentrate on your husband. If you are thinking about your ex, do you think you would cheat with your ex if given the chance? If so, let your husband go so he can find someone who will obsess over him and not the past.

Answer 2

well like the rest of us u need 2 just deal with it babe.

one ur married n should try 2 make ur marriage work.
two um there ur ex 4 a reason, remember those reasons.
three ur only married 2 years n guess what ur still dealing with the transition between single n married. its normal 2 go through the I think I may have made a mistake phase. its normal 2 go through the I think I married the wrong person phase. its normal 2 have these feeling n so many more. why because u r still trying 2 transition between single n married.

give urself n ur new hubby a break. work on ur marriage there is a reason why u married ur hubby n not ur ex.

if its really hard on u go 2 a councilor someone who can help u discuss these issues in private n help u 2 see where u belong.

whatever u do do not make it worse by trying 2 see the ex or sneaking around or leaving ur hubby without seriously concidering all the fact and ramifications of what ur doing.

good luck

Answer 3

let it go......you are a married woman now. It's been 2 yrs...your ex may not be the same person you know him. You are not being fair to your husband. If you still have feelings for you ex than why get marry? your ex is your past and your husband/wife is your future. You need to move on and let go your past. Thinking about your ex will not make your relationship better with the person you are marry to.

Answer 4

Usually men are easy to move on but women not. Because women more stay in emotional way and not easy to get over their feelings. If you love your husband when you married him and you still love him, but you also have feelings for your ex, I think it is normal for you. When people have their second marriage, and they still not over yet with their ex and it will take several years to get over. So, if you are in this situation, you should stop doing anything that related your ex, such as cut off any contact and don't even talk about his name and then slowly after another year, you will get over with your ex. Believe me, you can do it! My friends told me some of experience like these.

I had same feelings like you do, but I did not get over for myself, so that's why I am end up with a unhappy situation now, but I will take my experience for the next time. I know it is difficult but we should try our best. Good Lucky!

Answer 5

personally i still think about my exe's and i have been married for 10 years i think it is just more so how diffrent my life would be if i was married to my ex instead of to my husband i usually think about that when things aren't going great in our marrage i still and will continue to love my husband but don't worry i bet if people really thought about it they would think of there exe's just as much and how things would be diffrent good luck

Answer 6

I was like that too ...Married for 2 years and i kept thinking of my ex ...Was so stupid of me !!
But then i realized I'm the luckiest girl in the world i have a great man that's nothing but good to me and has sooo much love for me ...
You need to realize that too , he's your ex for a reason !!
I know it's hard!
Best of luck to you !

Answer 7

I don't know, are there children involved, if so, I'd say think about them 1st, and act accordingly as to whats in their best interest, if you absolutely feel that you cannot stay faithful and married to your husband, think out and formulate your plan very carefully, I'd say hire a lawyer before he even knows you're thinking about divorce, because chances are if there are children involved and your husband knows ahead of time, he may loose his temper ahead of time and well, you know your husband better than anybody. But a wise man once told me always do it to them before they get a chance to do it to you. 2nd thing is, does this ex reciporcate theese feelings, I'd find this out than formulate a plan. Always plan before you act and always have a contingency plan to.

Answer 8

If you do not really love your husband. You must tell your husband the truth about you have a feeling for your ex.

Answer 9

frist why u married someone u didnt love u knew u didnt love him why you do it well i think that u should get over ur ex and start making ur husband happy and make it last and try to love him cuz he probobly loves you cuz he married u and he want to be with u i think u should get over ur ex ur husband is what more important now

Answer 10

if u have a good relationship with ur ex....its probably kinda normal......but u didnt say what u think about in regard to him.....i think u can be the judge of inappropriate thoughts.....or just random comparisons. if u have inappropriate thoughts.....r u gonna leave ur current husband???? that would be what to think of.