Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a lil over 2 months now,.and at first he was all sweet and wrote me poems and only wanted to do whats appropiate for our ages..
well now 2 months in he acts differently, He seems to everytime i talk on the phone act "horny" and say "horny comments"...that may end up in something that shouldnt happen..
Whats going on??
Is it just growing up guys for you??
or is it he only wants me for other things or what???
and also it seems everytime we plan what we are gonna do for the weekends when we have no school [since we go 2 different schools] he wants everything planned from how were gonna kiss and what things were gonna do. its quite odd. is it normal.??
help.
thanks.
2006-09-10 17:36:54 · 10 answers · asked by HotChick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is a typical teenage boy whos hormones are raging. its all part of growing up.
that doesnt mean you need to give into him. you shouldnt do anything that you dont feel comfortable with, even if he uses the line ' if you love me you would'. its been around for ages. if he loved and respected you he wouldnt ask and would wait until your ready to take the next step.
dont be afraid to say NO. tell him not to speak to you the way he does if it makes you uncomfortable, if he cant accept how you feel then tell him to move on or you move on. good luck.
2006-09-10 17:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RRRUUUNNN. The comments should give you a heads up on his true intentions. A guy does not just say those comments for fun there is a hidden agenda there. Its typical to act all nice to get what you want later.
2006-09-10 17:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by seijisangiantsfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might want to bypass out on a date with the ex if attainable to make certain in the adventure that they have got any thoughts for eachother nevertheless, she seems that she may nevertheless like the ex. So then in the adventure that they dont attraction to to eachother then it will be more desirable uncomplicated for her to get over the ex. Theres no aspect in being in a relationship if she nevertheless likes the different guy, it basically complicates issues. So possibly the ex and your pal nevertheless attraction to and they basically mandatory a damage. sturdy success.
2016-11-26 00:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very normal behavior in men i am a 22 almost 23 year old wome with a 22 year old fiance of 2 years and 1 month men think about sex because some can't control them and as men get older t here bodies change just like ours does. we think about sex very little b ut men think about it more that is part of the male ego..
2006-09-10 17:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder whether he is getting some peer pressure from his friends because they are probably telling him they are "doing it" when in fact they aren't but he doesn't one to be the one left out.
Tell him you are uncomfortable with the relationship the way it is going and that you want things to go back to normal or you'll have to end it.
2006-09-10 17:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets worse the older they get. This is just the icing on the cake : especially if your name fits what you really look like.
2006-09-10 17:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL, HE'S A TYPICAL MAN AND YEP, IT'S NORMAL. TELL HIM TO STOP TRYING TO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN HOW CAN YOU PLAN THE WAY THAT YOU WILL KISS? IF IT HAPPENS, IT HAPPENS, AND IF IT DOESN'T THEN OH WELL. IF HE CAN'T RESPECT YOUR DECISIONS, THEN TO HELL WITH HIM AND TELL HIM TO GO DRINK PIG'S VOMIT!
2006-09-10 17:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you have to draw a line of what you will and won't do and he needs to respect that.
2006-09-10 17:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by movin12006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with everyone's answers to you. don't give in,tell him he's freaking you out and if he gets mad that pretty much tells you what he's after.
2006-09-10 17:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like so many of us......he's a slave to that demon testosterone.....he probably cant help it. tell him to chill its freakin u out.
2006-09-10 17:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋