my nature is of making frends. but after joining college this is proving to be a great problem 4 me. whnever i try to make a frend in case of boys, they treat me as a girlfrnd but not as a simple frnd. this makes me loose my trust on them. plllllllz help how should i convince them to be just my simple true but 4ever frnds.
2006-09-10 17:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by frend 4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
making boys your friends is not a bad thing but if they are troubling you taking you for granted or using you, it is bad.try to make friends which really want to make you as their friends, not those whom you think are good. because you do not know anybodies nature.
2006-09-10 18:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by brettlee_jid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,You Can Answer This Ques. Your Self IUn A Much Muich Better Way.....Coz U Know U Friends Better....n You Know How To Handle Them.,..So Advice Try n Find A Solution Urself
2006-09-11 06:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by tweetie_pie_ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one of two things
1) You are hanging out with the wrong guys or the wrong group of people...
2) Most young college guys on their own are not looking for friendship from cute girls. They want to get laid.... a lot. Most are very awkward about it. And its probably even more awkward when a girl is friendly with them, and then they continually strike out with her.
I never had much issue making friends with women and I have several deep friendships that have never been sexual. However I don't know any other guys like myself. You may find that you need to save your friendships to straight females until the males in your life mature a bit.
Hope this helps,
_Rob
2006-09-11 00:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys that are worthy of being true friends will develop into just that. A 4ever friend has to be genuine, not one that needs a lot of convincing. Keep meeting more people and you will find them naturally.
2006-09-11 00:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by paddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a big problem dear just be very frank with them what you feel abt them. or may be you are very beautiful and friendly in nature that everyone wants you as his Gf than just chill and enjoy until and unless they don't do anything wrong, be more alert, you know how girls are facing problems. take care
2006-09-11 06:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just entered college, In case of boys & girls there is no just friendship exhist. It is based in mutual attraction. So have friendship with girls or you can go fot internet friend like me & you will get what you want.
2006-09-11 01:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our indian mentality is like this. even i fail to understand why cant opp sex remain just good friends ? u b good and make ur stand clear to them that ur limit gets clear to them. if still u doubt someone of their wrong intentions just leave them, believe me others will also get a lesson
2006-09-11 00:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put on a ring on your finger and tell people you are attached.
Then they will know that you are not available and that will help ease a lot of confusion.
2006-09-11 00:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly making them understanding your perception.
2006-09-11 03:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to swim accross the current.
2006-09-11 00:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Truth ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋