everytime i go out and theres a gay man it seems he starts flirting with me and this happens all the time. Im still a virgin and 20yrs but i think im bi but leaning more towards girls. Do the gay men sense this? i ignore them because they are not my type. i dont like girly men. people think im not bi they think im straight.
2006-09-10 17:28:17 · 10 answers · asked by calidude5592000 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
everytime i go out and theres a gay man it seems he starts flirting with me and this happens all the time. Im still a virgin and 20yrs but i think im bi but leaning more towards girls. Do the gay men sense this? i ignore them because they are not my type. i dont like girly men. people think im not bi they think im straight...................................i think im goodlooking everybody tells me that..lol
2006-09-10
17:34:17 ·
update #1
i dont act gay. i act straight. oh well
2006-09-10 17:35:06 · update #2
Maybe 'cause you're hot, and in consequence you attract gay men, but I have a question for ya: where in the hell you hang out?!
2006-09-11 15:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by apernett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are putting out "vibes" whether you know it or not. The only guys I know who are not all-out gay that do this are bi or they are homophobes. You're probably unconsciously watching the men; and yes, they pick up on it! How do you know someone is not your type until you talk with them? Talking to a "girly" man might network you to one you are really attracted to. Just....enjoy your life! Godloveya!
2006-09-10 17:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are gay and you're attractive to them.
Do you feel uncomfortable being around effeminate gay men
knowing that you are bisexual? Do you say you're not my type, i'm straight or just don't respond to their advances. I know being gay myself that we pick up on body language and listen out for things a person say. Our "gaydar". avoidance from gay people can also be a sign that a person is indeed gay or biseuxal themselves. I think it's more about you not feeling comfortable with yourself actually because nobody knows you're bisexual and you are bothered by that.
2006-09-10 18:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 06:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They since that you are gay honey, gay men know it and they will pick you out of a crowd sorry, before I admitted to myself that I am gay. gay women would hit on me at the club, grocery store, hair salon etc so live with it.
2006-09-11 15:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by dark rockchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you notice them is giving them what is needed to notice you, I'm not trying to turn this around and you, it's who we are and it's not a bad thing...
:)
2006-09-10 17:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe u are really good looking, or give out a 'gay' vibe. its hard to say....anyway i reckon u should be flattered
2006-09-10 17:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well nobody is better looking than my boyfriend :-D and he'll prolly be reading this and that's ok cuz i believe it's true.
2006-09-10 21:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by mat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Where do you hang out, dude?
2006-09-10 17:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard of something call 'Gaydar'?
2006-09-10 17:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Robots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋