I have a fantasy that I have a desire to fill and need some advice from women who have had hands on experience.
My husband is all for fullfilling my fantasy but I need to know if Double Penetration is all it is cracked up to be. Bluntly, how does it feel and are there any out there that would do it again or do do it on a regular basis ?
2006-09-10 17:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by sandra curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it!! It is NOT all it is cracked up to be. A thumb or a finger is okay but nothing bigger or longer than that. It is not only not healthy, you can tear and bleed. Doctors recommend against it.
2006-09-10 17:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Emme 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as this fantasy is on a mutual basis go for it there is nothing wrong with it in fact in does feel really good the major thing is to take your time, move slowly, have a lot of lubrication on hand and keep the communication lines open with your partner. In my case it was easier for me to start the penetration to where it was not painful for me anymore(I moved and adjusted to him instead of the usual of him moving). It truly is a great thing to try, and like everything else in the world it's not going to be for everyone. Some people enjoy this on a weekly basis but will almost go to the extreme to deny it, it truly is just an experience that should stay in the bedroom and nowhere else.
I hope you do try it and just have fun with it, don't worry about the outcome of your endeavors. You may also want to invest in some small "toys" that vibrate to relax you a bit and get yourself used to the idea.
2006-09-11 00:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sandra,
Good for you that you two are exploring your fantasies! Yes, I have done it several times. I personally think it's great. There are some important things to consider. Chose your additional partner wisely and practice safer sex. DP might not be something you try with the new partner the first time. Practicing with a vibrator or dildo is also a good idea. There are a couple of variations on positions that can help ease things along. Have plenty of lubrication and be sure that the guys are very clear on when and how you are signaling them for start, stop, slow down, etc. Have fun!
2006-09-11 00:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me personally I have never tried it but do what the first guy said and use a vibrator. And have fun girl!!! At least your husband is game which means you found a good one!!
2006-09-11 00:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Southern Lady 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do like my wife and I did and use a vibrator in one and your husband in the other first to see how you like it before trying the real thing.
2006-09-11 00:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG.
The vibrator / hubby thing is all i get to do. ( hubby wont let me have anyone else :P )
It is awesome.
I dont do it on a regular basis though.
2006-09-11 01:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should try anal first to see if you like it if you do have your husband do you and then the other with a dildo good luck :)
2006-09-11 06:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by terri l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how this feels, but I'd sure love to find out! I've heard it feels pretty good.
2006-09-11 00:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
its not all that
2006-09-11 00:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by knightofcolumbus26 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋