pllzzzzzz help :( im depressed :(?

Question

my frnd is leavin for london n im damn depressed :( ill misss him soooo much... all i can think of is crying... i wan some1 to temme somethin which will cheer me up... ive got many memories with him wich come to mind every min n i feel lik cryin... i dunno wht to do...hes leavin in a day and all i do is think of how ill miss his msgs (cell) as we used to be in touch thro out the day every single day for the past 2 months... n now i fear we'll lose contact and i don wan tht :(

Answer 1

it's not the end of the world babe.

good frenship wont get lost that easily.

u can stay in contact with him via emails, MSN or phone calls.

if he doesnt reply, doesnt mean he forgets u, he is busy adjusting to a new life there.

be patient.

things are gona be alrite. :)

Answer 2

I know how you feel, about 7 years ago a close friend left for the netherlands and we only talk on the phone and email. The best I can say is just continue living your life. It will suck in the beginning but eventually it will become tolerable. You will never stop missing him but you will be able to go on. Thats life, sometimes it takes you in different directions. Hopefully it will make you stronger. Make sure you keep in touch, email, phone whatever. Visit each other every now and then. That will ease the pain. And as far as cheering you up, there is nothing that you can do, you are feeling what you should feel. If you need to cry let it out, it will help a bit.

Answer 3

Leaving of a friend is the sadest thing happens in our life. However, you have all good chances to meet him again. It will eventually get better as time passes. I would suggest you to First : accept the reality and try to understand the situation, with telling you to your heart that you will surely meet him again

Second : U must trust that u would be able to stay in touch with him if you both liked each other so much

Third: SMS you were receiving from him till now it will become more often via EMAIL messages and Phone calls (Skype and Yahoo phone).

Fourth: Try to indulge your self in to some other activities which you always wanted to do by yourself.

Fifth: If none of above sounds good to be working then just DONT DO IT : )

Hakuna Matata (dont worry be happy)

Answer 4

First of all i'm very sorry about your situation...even i had it 3 months back...had to leave my friend when i came to delhi for training...its difficult at beginning but i made myself sure that i will try keeping touch to the max extent possible...we still send mails daily which are really long and call weekly twice...also whenever possible we chat on orkut or yahoo messenger...it will obviously be difficult at the beginning but you will get used to this soon...at this age there are many technologies available to keep people from far off places stay in touch easily...so dont worry you will never lose contact with him...stay happy!! All the Best :)

Answer 5

ok i know what u feel like when my sister left for college it torn me right apart all i did was look forward for when she was coming home or i could visit her. I even pretended to be sick when she was home and i had to go to school. It hurts soo badly she use to go to college in Michigan and i live in Texas. still miss her and she is only 6 hrs away. when I'm lonely / bored i think about her and cry i now try to visit her as much as possible. i also I'm her over aim and talk on the phone. u could do the same even write a letter. i miss her so much i feel like nothing is going right and i miss her the most. i can't ever not miss her i miss social events to just be home and think about her sometimes. i cried every night practically till i saw her. It is soo hard not to just start crying in public. i hope this has helped but just try to I'm him and talk and write letters b/c u can never replace the ppl u love

Answer 6

The treatment for melancholy is common yet doing it relatively is the puzzling area. in maximum situations what reasons melancholy is loneliness. Islam teaches us to be around human beings by using fact in basic terms human beings can relatively make you chuffed and temptation from the devil is maximum useful once you're on my own. between the downsides to technologies is that it separates human beings. childrens pass into their very own rooms to observe television or pass on computers, this reasons families to be separate. attempt to no longer pass on the computer too a lot and spend maximum of a while around human beings, with kinfolk or acquaintances and pass outdoors and don't stay indoors. "in case you worry Allah(swt) you have no reason to worry something" - Imam Ali

Answer 7

You have not much option but to remain in touch with him by ways of e-mail, phone, etc. You can make one more new friend soon and stop being so depressed. These things happen as one changes colleges/univs, etc. Relax !

Answer 8

U will be alright girly, if U 2 are true friends, then you'll keep in touch no matter how far apart U are.

Answer 9

well it is a saying that when hearts are loyal then distance doesn't matter. so u must believe in your frnd . try to be in contact with him. if your friedship is true then he will surely be with you.but it might be possible that he must be busy . u should also try to understand him.
but it's my advice not to bother about those who don't bother bbt urself.

Answer 10

Go for long walks play music and keep lots of his photos near by.