are bit strange. One is a pschyic case seems like suffering from attention deficit disorder or schizophrenia. wat she talks never make sennse. other one is no doubt intelligent but she sings songs whole day, talks regularly while sleeping n above all have an attitude prob. She think she's best n others r nothing. i have asked her several times not to sing songs as me not able 2 conc on studies but no affect on her. this all give me lots of stress. wat shud i do?
2006-09-10 16:55:32 · 20 answers · asked by emmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find a nice quite place to do your studies, for example a park, library, or cafe.
2006-09-10 17:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's terrible for you. I've got 2 possible options for you.
1.) Would it be possible to switch rooms and move in with someone else you know?
2.) If you can't switch rooms then just try to spend as little time in the room as possible. Just go there to sleep. Try to eat, study, and spend time elsewhere like in a friend's room.
If neither of these work, then just try talking to your roommates again nicely, and explaining some of the behaviors that are bothering you.
2006-09-10 23:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see i m also leaving in hostel and for a year i also suffered from this type of problem but the hostel is the place where u must try to adjust with all such things that's what hostel life teaches us. but if again not possible complaint about both but i know these kind of complaints are generally ignored so the BEST SOLUTION WILL BE to adjust with ur friends of ur class who stay in other rooms and use ur room for sleeping purpose only. Ok! Best OF LUCK FOR UR HOSTEL L(IFE BECOZ I M ALSO STAYING IN HOSTEL.
2006-09-11 03:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nikhil C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First open a book and learn how to write. Sorry but it is very hard to understand you. Second, you may need to talk to the person who is in charge of this hostel. I suggest you talk to the sing girl again and let her know she is upsetting you and your education. If that does not work, seek the person in charge.
2006-09-10 23:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your problem to your warden/ in-charge and request to help in this regard without disclosing your name. Because you have to live with them and have to concentrate in your study.
The second option is you can request to your hostel authority to change the present room and allot another room where you may find good room partners.
I am happy that you are serious about your studies !!
GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-09-11 00:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by winner p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a very common problem. first u should make them deeply understand the problems u are facing just because of them and also the study losses.. tell her that her songs disturb your studies and it is the question of your carrier...if still they don't try to understand then the only option is to change your room. you must talk to your caretakers or wardens also.
2006-09-11 00:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by frend 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r facing a serious problem, with which u cant concentrate on studies. u should not keep on tollerating it nd get disturbed. ask ur hostel warden to change ur room,telling her d seriousness of d problem. in case u are not able to handle it on ur own ask ur parents to get to speak to d warden. agreed in hostel u have to adjust with others but not at d cost of ur own sufferings. all d best
2006-09-11 00:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE TIME YAAR, ROOM MATES ARE FOREVER FRIENDs...
take time, everything would be alright.
you will see after 4 months or so that they are your best friends...
try to think that they are good... you change your own thinking attitude for a little time, atleast 1 hour a day, then you will definitely have grace for them...
\and you will start loving them...
2006-09-11 00:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by MADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach the warden in charge and get a shift from there before you change like them .
2006-09-11 00:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! I think you would go mad living with those girls. It would be better to change roompartner.
If that is not possible, then do things that irritate your roompartners.
Either they would improve their behaviour or they would leave you alone.
2006-09-11 00:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋