i like this guy thats 2 years older than me. but thats not the problem. we're friends i guess, but not really good friends. but we're cool. so anyway, if you saw everytime we talked, you would say he was flirting with me, but i don't know. i think i dont like to say it because i have a hard time believing he liked me. but everytime we have a conversation, he's the one that starts it. but i think he has a girlfriend still which happens to be my friend...unless they broke up over summer. so i dont know..dont think ima backstabber, i cant help it, im sorry. and everytime i talk to him, i start blushing like a stop light, i get all nervous, and shy, and end up saying or doing something stupid. well not stupid, its just after i would wish that i said something cooler.
i dont really know wat my question is but someone at least give me their opinion.
2006-09-10 16:53:28 · 9 answers · asked by Cassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Opinion? My opinion is that you're a ditsy teenager.
2006-09-10 16:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Paul J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You OBVIOUSLY like him, and that doesn't make you a backstabber, maybe you should wait a little while before telling him. That way, if he is with a girl, or just broke up, you're saving yourself the position of rebound and getting hurt.
2006-09-10 16:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty obvious he likes you, don't you? I also think it's pretty obvious that he knows you like him, what with your blushing and all. Thirdly, I bet he finds your nervousness rather cute and endearing. I reckon if you gave him half a chance, he might ask you out. Now that would be cool.
2006-09-10 16:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u ask her in a round a bout way if they broke up. and ask him if he wants more than just the flirting. i've been thru it a few times and it was just the guy wanting to be friends. stop being stupid and ask.
2006-09-10 16:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by cristina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that once to but, I wasn't single to find out. If your single gril find out if he flirting. Go for it girl. If he is flirting he might not be happy where he is. He might be trying to get you to make the first solid move! FIND OUT!
2006-09-10 17:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by rose_adair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are friends with his girlfriend I suggest you do not start with that. I suggest you leave him alone or you will lose your friendship. I also think if you go after him and he likes his current gf (your friend) better you will then have no one. No friend or no friend who you want to be dating.
2006-09-10 16:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, communication means everything, if ya like him and wanna go further with him, ask him if he is still attached, and let him know you are intrested, but at the same time, let him know if he is still attached, you dont want to hurt her or their relationship.
good/great relationships are built on LOTS of communication.
2006-09-10 17:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by K E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to probably wait till he messages you... if he would not... wait a pair of days and then mesage him.. if nevertheless no reponse.. basically go away it on my own.. if he's in contact he will finally end up replying to you!
2016-11-26 00:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by nevius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he spends that much time with you and he has a girlfriend then he isnt real close with her. i bet if you asked him why he hsant asked you out you would get a very nice response
2006-09-10 16:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋