I know that anal sex seems to be taboo...but I really don't know what else. I'm in a 20 year committed relationship..does that disallow me from calling myself g0y? If I google in g0ys I get a blurb across the bottom of the page that really doesn't tell me too much except that g0ys are a group of men who are deeply affectionate to other men and don't subscribe to the effeminate types portrayed by the media. this is a serious question--if you don't know what I'm asking..pls don't post.
2006-09-10 16:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are many men who have been in multiple decade relationships that have redefined themselves as g0y. I do not understand why the gay community who gets judged because of the way they decide to label themselves can get so frigging bent out of shape because of how a group of homosexuals decide to label themselves. G0ys do not really do any of the stereotypical behavior of gays except cuddle and get close to their buds. We love men that is not enough for us to feel gay. Gay to us is about assphucking and effeminate behavior. Now if you aren’t into that but have accepted the term gay and are happy being gay then fine and dandy but if a guy has problems accepting that term why then would you deny him the right to feel comfortable accepting another term if he is comfortable with it. I mean if it helps him to be comfortable with his sexuality then what difference does it make to you guys? When you have been raised in a military family or in the bible belt you have a hard time accepting the label gay especially if the gay guys you know make you feel like an outcaste because you do not like the behavior that they normally portray. G0y fits me if it don’t fit you then fine but why are you guys constantly giving me crap over it. I don’t give you crap over being gay. Be as queer as you want for all I care. I get 10 emails a day from peeps trying to define me as gay yet these people would pitch a fit if you tried to define them as sinners or if you tried to say they choose to be gay. I am not doing that I am just asking for acceptance for myself and for those that are like me.
2006-09-11 11:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps you are already a g0y and don't know it. G0YZ, unlike some gay men; celebrate the masculinity of the male form. We are loyal, show respect and are totally discreet with our buds. We believe in developing long term relationships with our buds on a friendship level; verses a sexual level first. Yes anal sex is taboo. There are many ways of developing and being sexually in-tune with you bud, other than anal sex.
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2006-09-11 18:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
g0ys, It's a term used for two masculine homoseuxal men being intimate with each other. If you fit that term than you can call yourself a g0ys. it's a way of disassociating themselves from the flamboyant type of homosexual men. Masculinity and Sexuality is two different things and they are still gay homo's.
2006-09-11 00:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was wondering about that too. i found this :
Guys who have hooked up with a group of like-minded guys/g0ys. We've`put it all together` & we`re tired of being oppressed, lied about/to, & put down, by the religious reicht & the morally-bankrupt left (Wise relationships have restraints. See http://www.g0ys.org - to learn what g0ys are all about). We represent gUys who discover early that they`re into other gUys, but not into being anyone`s "top" or "bottom" (We`re absolutely repulsed/opposed to an*l-s3x or any fetish involving filth [Half a million dead gAys & the culture still doesn`t see the correlation])! G0YS: It`s about relationship & ultimate respect for other bro's without sacrificing a spiritual life, or moral center. G0YS have found that too many gAys have compromised those (2) dimensions of their humanity & bought into the lie that implies that "gay"="effeminate", "promiscous", "petty" `coward", "an*l" or "dirty". G0YS are none of those. We have no use for the likes of "Queer Eye", & many of us find what it implies about guys in2 guys to be grossly offensive. We reclaim our masculinity & call others to do the same. Join us ... Join the G0YS!
i dunno if thats what u have read - its about all i could find.
2006-09-11 00:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
G0ys want to be really close with other guys but not get into being boned in the butt. from what ive seen its kinda hard to really describe it.
2006-09-11 00:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by tapa_autoparts 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
PERSONAL OPINION: G0ys (with a zero) are a group of guys so afraid of the stigma of being called gAy (with an A) that they are seeking acceptance fromt he straight community by changing their name and attitude.
Little do they realize that for the straight community, even the appearance of affection to another guy appears gAy. Jacking one off cuddling and kissing them will just put you deeper in gAy category.
So you don't take it up the butt. You still prefer the company of men. You play with their penises. That makes you gAy. To me it seems like a cry for attention.
2006-09-11 00:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Never heard of the term.
2006-09-10 23:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Randy W. seems to be the expert on this. I suggest you contact him...
Good luck!
2006-09-11 03:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Vincent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know I'm 41 and until I came here I never heard of a Goy..... I'm out of the loop again............
:)
2006-09-10 23:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋