Okay, some of you out there were talking about the way I wrote my last question, and It bothered me, so I deleted it because I was hurt. I dont have the best self esteem about myself so waht should I do to change that? Im shy and dont think I look too good either, I want to be grateful that Im not obese or have a disability...but I don't know how....
2006-09-10 16:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by minimouse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I know I never said anything mean to you and for those who did it was very wrong of them to be mean to you I try to help people out the best I can so I will tell you this I know how you feel sometimes I feel really bad about myself I go around telling my family and husband that I hate myself and that i'm ugly and fat i'm 22 and i'm 5'6 and I weigh 130 but no matter what I do have times I call myself names and put myself down the way I change the way I feel is I fix myself up don't ever feel sorry for yourself I did for a while and I fixed that real quick now when I feel bad about myself I go take a bubbly bath and put make up on and fix my hair and I put on something bright and it makes me feel good about myself then I tell myself I look good anytime you feel ugly go fix yourself up and look at yourself in the mirror and say I look good it works for me be very thankful your not obese or disabled remember this you problem is petty compared to people out there some people are in wheel chairs, have cancer, AIDS, remember their are people with worst problems then you and you will stop feeling this way I guarantee it cause when I saw channels with sick children and people I thought to myself I am lucky to be alive and I will tell you this it can bring you down to depression my sister died the year of 2006 a few days before Christmas she felt so bad about herself she ended up killing herself with a drug over dose don't let things get to you life is too precious for all of this
2006-09-10 16:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you don't have self-esteem. Everybody has value - everybody! If you don't think you look good then you could work on that. Learn to do your makeup. Hey, with the right makeup, there's no such thing as an ugly woman. And sweetie, obese people can be beautiful too - and nice. Try the makeup and hairdo thing and when you see how good you look that should boost your self esteem. At least it should help.
2006-09-10 23:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be youreself and to h#ell what enyone says abou t you or says to you im a 26 yr old chick that workis in the oil field in wyoming i have more tattos then i have fingers and toes and im damn good lookin chick some may not think so but i do ... be youre self and start kickin some a#ss
2006-09-10 23:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by lismo2121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must believe in yourself,period.
2006-09-10 23:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by massimo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋