2006-09-10 15:55:57 · 17 answers · asked by firered 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I chose my husband but I would have trusted my family to choose my husband.
2006-09-10 22:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get married you become one in the eyes of God. You should never have to choose though. Your Family is still your Family. No good Husband would ever make you choose.
2006-09-10 23:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases you don't have to choose one and forsake the other. They can both be a part of your life. If one is encouraging you to do something wrong or something which you are uncomfortable with simply tell them you love them and explain why you feel the way you do. Hopefully everything works out. Just stand up for yourself and your feelings.
2006-09-11 02:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by jasminelilia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. There aren't enough details to really answer this question.
Both a husband and a family can ask unrealistic things of a woman. Depends on who is being unfair or unrealistic and the history of the situation.
2006-09-11 00:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by milomax 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on the circumstance.No one should ever ask any one to choose between people,especially between family members.But if it came down to the crunch,where i was made to really choose,I would choose my husband hands down,as he is an amazing man.
2006-09-10 23:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you marry you become one with this person, FORSAKING all others. your husband IS your family. why are you having to choose. he shouldnt make you choose, and neither should your family. when one or the other makes you choose, simply say, NO i love you both and that's it. period, no discussion. it's not about them, it's about YOU and how strong your backbone is.
2006-09-10 22:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your husband unless he is absolutely out of bounds on something. Divorces aren't cheap.
2006-09-10 23:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but need way more info b4 answering this one. Y do u have to choose?
2006-09-10 23:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Given that there's not a moral quandry, it's your husband. Otherwise you don't have a marriage.
2006-09-10 23:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by hawkthree 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can't say which one you will choose it , only we must know love them forever.
2006-09-11 00:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by Janice Tee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋