Are you aware how your every word,gesture and action is being filed away in the woman's mind? We then analyze ALL of it, day after day,with just about anyone who will listen. Did you know this?
2006-09-10 15:53:18 · 30 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I did know this. As a side note, sometimes I sleep with a tinfoil crown on my head so my wife can't read my thoughts. She tries to analyze these too.
2006-09-10 15:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by dudeman 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys sometimes do this as well. Perhaps women do it more often- over analyzing and sweating the small stuff. One of my x-girlfriends used to always ask me what I was thinking, what my facial expressions meant, etc. Guys might notice certain body language and actions, but they don't bring it up. They quickly decide whether its important or not and let it pass, instead of letting it brew.
2006-09-10 23:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Matthias G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes by the time we get to be in our mid 20,s or so it becomes apparent that women are crazy. Can,t remember to check the oil in the car or pay a bill on time but remembers that you said you didn,t like the way she looked in a particular sweater and pants combination 3 years ago and today is the day to get back at you for it.
2006-09-10 22:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Iknowthisone 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'm aware. Thats why I go for tomboys more than regular girls. Regular girls are just neurotic...most of them.
I have had girlfriends who would flip out on me/go all pissy over some perceived insensitive comment I made and others that know how to express themselves much better and understand everyone has flaws. I definitely go for the latter.
2006-09-10 23:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by midwestbruin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing, I forget a lot of it though. Sort of like filtering. Yaeh , many people do that. When we age our forgetteries kick in more, so store some good things now I figure. Music is some of the last to go at the end I have heard.
2006-09-10 22:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are a nice person then the things I would say to you would always be nice to talk about. When I really like a girl I will tell her all types of good stuff about her so that way she can think later on about how much I like and listen to her.
2006-09-10 22:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by pimpc6961 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's really interesting that most guys are on the defencive about this.
I mean, I'm a woman who appreciates the little nice things a man does (he said please! Wow!) and admires men (man, can he BBQ! And he built that storage unit in less than twenty minutes!).
And, of course, there's the way a man can fill out a pair of jeans!!!
Just because we're analyzing doesn't mean we're critical. We just constantly wonder if you like us.....
2006-09-10 23:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep. And did you know that the guys who know this will purposly say things and gesture in ways that will show them in a positive light, and cloud the true horndogedness that they are?
2006-09-10 23:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by send_felix_mail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And did you know that everytime you do a manipulative thing like cry or flirt to get what you want, that's being filed away in guys minds. They use those files to decide if you are worth treating well, or if you are just a skank.
2006-09-10 22:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by troyboy 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
We are. Which is why we just sit around and talk about how fat you are getting, or how you wont put out anymore.
Sometimes, we talk about your breast size (or lack thereof) and how loose you would become after a few drinks at a party.
So, it's a fair trade I suppose.
2006-09-10 22:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋