every other fight he wants me to move on, then he doesn't , then he does, when do i know for sure he wants me out of his life??
2006-09-10 15:22:24 · 17 answers · asked by hoecake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i wouldnt be too concerned about what he wants.....what really matters is what you want....if you love him and enjoy the relationship hang around if not then maybe you should give him the marching orders and move on to someone who will aprreciate you a little more.
2006-09-10 15:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are not happy and are constantly fighting , think about that? Put your self and the other person out of misery. End the relationship,take some down time for u, then enjoy life. Around the corner Mr. Right , could be waiting,or not. Either way it is not healthy to be in any sort of relationship that is primarily negative. Good luck 2 U...
2006-09-10 22:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by doggilover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, how much longer do you want to put up with this? He's playing on your emotions. Get out of his life, stay out for a while and then, if he wants you back, tell him you're done playing games. So then next time he asks you to leave, make sure you tell him it's for good! You deserve better than that!!
2006-09-10 22:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Petey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"every other fight he wants me to move on, then he doesn't , then he does, when do i know for sure he wants me out of his life??"
go like this,
whenever you both are in a good mood
Hey baby every other fight you want me to move on, then you don't, then you do, when do I know for sure you want me out of your life?
2006-09-10 22:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by It's me, Kassy. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if he keeps saying it off and on he cant make up his mind but if you want you can take a bigger step and tell him your moving on and you dont need some unstable person in your life then after that work on yourself and find happiness no need to be with someone that wants u then and then the other time they dont .. do him a favor move on and show him your better .. Good Luck
2006-09-10 22:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man's problem isn't with you, its with himself. He is dealing with some issue that he can't come to terms with and taking it out on you. Like the saying goes "You always hurt the one you love."
You have the choice to stay with him and help him deal with it, which could ruin you both emotionally and mentally, OR tell him you will leave him until he gets the professional help he so desperately needs. Whatever you decide, consider your own needs first.
2006-09-10 22:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have lots of fights? It's normal to have them once in a while, in fact, it's healthy. Your man doesn't know what he wants. Maybe it would be a good time to ask him what he feels when you aren't fighting?
2006-09-10 22:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of us spend our lives waiting for the other person to decide our own fate. I finally learned after years of waiting for my wife to do something about her alcohol addiction, so that I could get back to enjoying my life. In the end I figured it out, it was all up to me to decide what to do, for myself.
2006-09-10 22:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to leave him even if you will be sad because if he cant love you all the time just imagine if you marry him! it wouldnt be good then it will be too late to move on.....just leave him now and you will be happy in the end with someone that loves you and that you love back... if he has questions about whether or not he loves you then its not meant to be if he has to think about it!
2006-09-10 22:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by imjustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first time he said it he wanted you out of his life. I think now it's just a relationship of convenience and it's familiar.
2006-09-10 22:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋