I have been going out with my gf for 2 years, and we broke up like a month ago. We constantly argue about stuff, and I'm tired of her voice sometimes. She kept on saying that I hide my stuff and never told her anything - which is true, why am I doing this? I feel that she is not the girl that I want, and I don't know why. In the past two years, we never brought each other out to meet friends or families. I know she still love me, but I'm getting less and less. One thing that makes me feel uncomfortable is I've told her many times that you have to work hard to move up in your career, but it seems she has no motivation. I told her that you're doing this for yourself and not me or anyone. Every time we talk about this topic, she will get pissed. I guess she is really not the girl for me. I really want a girl who keeps on setting goals to herself, so she can have a better life in the future. Do you think my relationship with her is done?
2006-09-10 15:16:21 · 8 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I leave her, which I think it will happen, I will still be worrying about her. I want her to have a good life, and I still want her to work hard for herself and do not have to rely on anyone. She is a very dependent person, and I'm just afraid things will not go right for her once I leave.
2006-09-10 15:37:25 · update #1
I think you know its over, you said so yourself that you feel shes not the girl that you want. If two years has gone by and your feeling that already, imagine how you would feel 5 years from now. Once the milk has gone bad thats it. Cut your losses now and be honest with her and yourself. Don't drag string her along either. Be a man and tell her it's not working out anymore. Good Luck!!
2006-09-10 15:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kit Katt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is done, why are you seeking affirmation?
If you broke up a month ago, then discontinue contact. You have no right to tell her what to do, you are not her father. She doesn't want your advice on how hard she should work. You are compelled to control that.
No, she is not the right girl for you - and you are not the right man for her.
2006-09-10 22:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to be with her set her straight and move on with your life what's the use of being unhappy and aruging when its not worth it find someone that makes you happy or just focus on yourself for now ,, make yourself happy first.. u come first after all
2006-09-10 22:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to move on because if it was still going on you would have like strong fillings for her and you dont so you need to get over her and move on find someone you really want to ce with
2006-09-10 22:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it sounds like it's pretty much done, if your thinking about breaking it off with her then you obviously don't want to be with her anymore, maybe if you guys got along better thou you would feel differently, so maybe try to work things out and talk to her before breaking it off, you might regreat it if you don't
2006-09-10 22:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you feel it in your heart that it's over, then it is. Just let it go. Unless she changes. But I doubt it. People often don't change.
2006-09-10 22:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, move on
2006-09-10 22:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!
2006-09-10 22:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by marg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋