It depends on the state of your relationship now and other factors outside your relationship. As long as you have the one you love engaged in conversation about your relationship and sharing each other's feelings about commitment, you have a chance to figure out what is happening and the reasons for his lack of feeling committed.
When the communication stops, the bond will weaken. Spend time together, discuss your feelings. Allow the person time to get to know you deeper and get closer to you. In time, the one you love may start to feel committed feelings for you.
If it doesn't work, don't let it ruin your life. Be upset, but in good time recover and go on with life. If the person comes back, you will be ready to receive them having healed the hurt. It will take sharing that hurt to allow them back in, but in the sharing you become closer.
Good luck!
2006-09-14 08:16:20
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answered by Ken C. 6
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I fell in love with my husband to be the moment I laid eyes on him. We were 16, at summer camp, and he was the boyfriend of a girl I had met there because we were working in the kitchen together. I told her I was going to marry him one day. She laughed. It took 6 years, but I didnt lose faith. I knew he would be my husband. He was engaged to someone else in those years, left to join the army and went to Germany for two years, but I didnt give up the hope we would marry. When he got out of the army, he finally came to visit me a few months later. We were married about three months after that, and have remained married for 30 years now. Just have faith. Stick to your beliefs and let him go. If it is to be, it will be, even if you have to wait 6 years or longer. That's true love,.
2006-09-10 21:50:26
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answered by chattanoogamollyblue 2
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