Well , I`m not excited sexually in women , when I see a sex between a man and a woman I`m subconsciosly attracted to the man , I like muscle men & whenever I see a musclemen esp in violent acts I get excited and I gotta jerk off I haven`t ever had sex with anyone but I think I`ll like it to have sex with a muscle man esp to have ******** and to drink *** , I think I`m gay but .... Am I really or maybe I should have sex with a girl one time to make sure If I`ll like it or not?>
2006-09-10 13:05:25 · 10 answers · asked by gay_james_1940s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dear,
You write "I`m subconsciously attracted to the man". As you are aware of the attraction you seem to be consciously attracted to him. Do you mean by this that you imagine yourself doing what the woman in film is doing?
, I like muscle men & whenever I see a musclemen esp in violent acts I get excited and I gotta jerk off
Being stimulated by violent acts is something else than being gay. Maybe you mean acts requiring physical strength ...?
You are uncertain about your sexual orientation (preference). Perhaps you should give yourself some time to experiment.
Personally I think you might be bisexual with a predominantly gay orientation. You apparently do not feel physical revulsion about the idea of sex with women.
Give yourself time, there's no rush.
2006-09-10 13:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have not provided enough information to make a determination.
There are those who appreciate and envy muscle men, and are not necessary gay. I think there is a good possibility you may be, but with the information you have provided, I do not think it is possible to make a determination.
I think you have some soul searching to do before you make that determination. Do some searching, research, talk with someone one on one, then make a decision.
Oh just to have sex with a woman to see if your gay will not work either. You will either have low expectations, or high which ever, and will be sadly disappointed if that is the only reason you do that.
2006-09-10 14:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Brad B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sort of doubt that you are straight, but then again, I can't determine if you are really gay either. You might be bisexual. If you would have just said, "I'm really sexually aroused by muscle men" I personally would not have thought a thing of it; lots of men, including straight men, are like that. However, when you gave explicit details of what you would like to do sexually with a man, at least for me, that moved you strongly away from the straight category and at least into bisexuality.
2006-09-10 18:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With what you said about yourself i.e. what attracts you-men, muscle men; I'd say you are gay. I think that you have a stimulation with men, and if that's the situation then you should confront this within yourself. Frankly, I think that you should be who you are! And if that's it, then so be it! I'd rather see you doing what you want, like, and enjoy, then being what you don't want and have a affinity with. Be strong, search your soul, and do what needs to be done! Confront yourself truly!
Oh, can you see yourself living in a union with a man?
2006-09-10 15:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by David R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if it's the violence you're getting off on, then you might want to talk to a therapist to gain an understanding of what's in you're subconscience - which is the stuff you are not aware. Violence is about power and control, not sex or sexual orientation. Otherwise, if you are attracted to men, hook up with one and find out.
2006-09-10 13:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you made a stable selection. i'm sixteen and had intercourse my freshman 365 days and that i do no longer sense sorry approximately it in any respect. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that, I wasn't compelled into it and that i actually loved the guy I did it with. Now i'm sixteen and am in-love with a guy and it quite does make all of it greater suitable. And my boyfriend did no longer have intercourse until eventually me, and he's now a senior. look intercourse is tremendous and all yet while your thinking it you certainly shouldn't do it. you have have been given all of highschool and school to have intercourse, you mustn't look lower back on your first time with any regrets. And in the journey that your lady chum breaks up with you on Monday for no longer having intercourse together with her than this is the only element she needed from you in the 1st place.
2016-12-15 05:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
James,
Your letter shows that you are definitely gay. So what? Just be careful out there, dude. I've had friends who were gay and, from what they've told me, it can be a dangerous and up-hill lifestyle. Be yourself, be cool and be careful. Okay?
2006-09-10 13:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually,you're gay and be happy about it.If you have sex with a girl,then you discovered you're gay,and she is pregnant,you'll end up with a really serious problem.
2006-09-10 17:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by heidi_springle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're subconciously attacted to men????? Guy sorry to be the one to tell you but you are gay...having sex with a female will just convince you more.
2006-09-10 13:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Diary,
Got lost in a storm of words last nite ... not making sense. Must be gay issues. Can't make out what .. what .... ahhh ... nevermind. I got it! Thanks (rolling eyes)
2006-09-10 15:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋