my friends girlfriend continues seeing him and sleeping with him and then when she slept with someone else he was heartbroken she says she told him it was over and he should not be that hurt they were together for 8 years and just going through a seperation
2006-09-10 13:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by cubbearrobot 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
most women are sluts & should be treated as such, forget about her & get on with your life
2006-09-10 13:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by jaketherake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sexual intercourse is the physical act of betrayal - some could say there are the mental betrayals and that can depend upon how heavily impacted upon partners life that is which means defining normal levels - a continued ongoing relationship whilst seperated and with someone else is also a question of morality that has to be looked upon and wether or not it is one that is acceptable or else one day it may hurt yet again in another form
2006-09-10 20:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by countryside_freedom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they broke up it wasn't betrayal though. But of course it hurt him to find out she'd been w/ someone else after being w/ her for 8 years. It'll probably hurt her when she finds out he was w/ someone else too.
But to answer your question about knowing if you've betrayed someone sexually is if you both have agreed to be exclusive & make commitments to each other. Then one of the 2 goes off & is intimate w/ someone outside of the committed relationship.
2006-09-12 01:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by paigenstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether together or not, even a snog would prove to be an act of betrayal, it is as sexual and in my opinion, more emotional then intercourse. That's my opinion. Oh and your friends girlfriend is using the 'seperation' as an exuse not to deal with her betrayal and to put your friend in a dark place, he's better off without her.
2006-09-10 20:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by pinkytickle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who you asking about, same answer as before.
It's either:
1) over, so move on buddy,
or
2) you REALLY love her, so if she did sleep with this guy then you'll forgive her (because it was just a bit of sex, OK) & forget about the vows (yours or hers?) and make it work.
You've been trying for nine years, you should know by now. Time to be honest with yourself, I think.
2006-09-10 20:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by fruitbat7711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 years is not a joke.brother you were betrayed big time.that means that she was there just for sex n when she got tired of you
she left.dont worry what goes around comes around.she is the one
that is going to receive great pain.
2006-09-14 08:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over! shes playing!! not fair! tell him to move on , he deserves better . best of luck.
2006-09-10 20:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by jayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bypassing the word NO!
2006-09-10 20:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couldn't get the erection
2006-09-12 03:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋