But when she does cry, she cries LOUD and nonstop. I don't know what to do. I feel like a lousy mom. I can't figure out what exactly it is that makes her upset. Anyone have any idea from the experience you've had with your own kids??Thanks so much.
2006-09-10 13:04:37 · 14 answers · asked by deejay 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Does she cry with anyone you leave her with or a particular person. If it's the same person, I would wonder what is up. If it is different people, she probably just missing you. Maybe you should try leaving her more ofter for short times. That way she'll get used to you leaving, and she'll KNOW you will return. I did have a couple of criers, but I figured that it was because I was a stay-at-home mom and she was used to being will me all of the time. They do get over it though. Hang in there. You are not a bad mom. Your baby just loves you. That's because you are a good mom. :)
2006-09-10 13:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Speaking_Up 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go out...where. Is she in a buggy? Is it because she can no longer see you if you pushing the buggy and she's facing away from you? Is she uncomfortable? Are the places you are taking her to too loud, or is she just fussy and bad tempered because she isn't at home getting all of your attention?
I don't know what to suggest for you...it may be just a phase.
Just don't stress too much about it. You are obviously not a lousy mom, because you care enough to ask about what is happening. Just keep loving your baby, and she'll figure out that there's no need to cry.
2006-09-10 13:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean she cries when you go out without her and leave her with a sitter, or she cried when you take her out with you? If she cries when you take her out with you, start paying attention to when/where this happens. Do you normally take her to the grocery store at 10:00 a.m., and this is when she cries the hardest? If so, maybe she's tired and needs a nap at that time, or maybe the grocery store is too bright/noisy/cold for her. Does she cry more at night/in the evening? If so, does she also cry the same if you keep her at home during that time? That could be colic.
Your best bet would be to take notice of when/where she's crying the most, and try to eliminate those places/times for going out.
2006-09-11 02:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost all babies cry loud and nonstop at one point or another. She will outgrow it. In the meantime if it is disturbing other people the best thing to do is remove her from the situation. She is probably uncomfortable in an environment she is not familiar with. Since babies can't talk they communicate through crying. Try to relax. It won't last.
2006-09-10 13:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be the person you are leaving her with. Be careful. It is a common problem and since it is likely to only last a few months most just stay at home or take baby. If it feels rejection it can cause trauma and you will see the effects and feel guilty in years to come. Even if it is not the cause and your child has problems you will feel guity. Think long and hard if you need to leave her.
2006-09-10 13:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The child can sense your not there its like anxiety she will grow out of it. Usually they only cry for a couple of minutes then stop. Tell the carer to occupy the child as you leave with some toys or singing. When you walk out the door dont come back to check on her as it makes it worse for both of you.
2006-09-10 17:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd merely rock her/carry herfor a on a similar time as and have a look into to make her gentle. in case you get too exhausted positioned her in her crib and enable her cry somewhat. she would have the ability to get exhausted and pass to sleep, have confidence me. i've got been there and completed that many a night. contained in the morning if she's nevertheless like that and rubbing her ears, take her to the checklist merely to make constructive.
2016-09-30 13:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with my baby girl she is 4 mos old now too she gets cranky when we go to grandmas or someones else house for the day and we are there too I think she knows she isn't home and she gets undone once we get home she is all happy again. Or is your baby teething or does she have a tummy ake it could be that too. But you are not a bad mommy. baby's do their own things
2006-09-10 16:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by marshmellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids even that young (sense) , know you are leaving and she is crying to rebel your leaving. and maybe she doesn't like who is taking care of her when you are gone. young children know if they like or dislike someone. by the way she is held or talked to. I'm not saying this person is mean to her but I am saying she is crying for a good reason.
2006-09-10 13:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My nephew is like that he is 11 mths old.As long as we are in the house he is fine we leave the house he is a reck.He is not use to being around other people.
2006-09-11 01:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋