I dont know when i should have sex and if i will get pregnant. and i dont know how I should either... Im 18 and I havent before...and I really want to with my boyfriend...I have been going out with him for 7 months now...
2006-09-10 12:58:14 · 20 answers · asked by imjustme 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
First, make sure you have seen an obgyn for a pap and get yourself on some birth control. Second, always ALWAYS use a condom!! Third....consider waiting until you are married! There are just too many risks out there....emotionally and physically...and it's something you will never forget and never be able to get back.
2006-09-10 13:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by nic_tammyscott 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really a question of when, that's up to you, when you feel completely ready. But make sure, if you don't want to get pregnant, that you are PROTECTED! The best way is to use at least 2 forms of birth control, such as the Pill and a condom. Condoms are the easiest but they can break or leak so make sure you know how to put it on right (don't use 2 at once because the friction makes them break more easily), and you should really look into getting yourself on the birth control pill, patch, or ring. You have to be on those at least a month before they are effective. Hope this helped :)
2006-09-10 20:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by justagirl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, wait till you are married so it would be certainly with that special one. If you dont want to wait, make sure you use protection. You should get on birth control AND use a condom. Yep, both at the same time because even though birth control may reduce the risk of pregnancy, you can still catch some kind of STD or worst.
2006-09-10 20:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in about 10 years
2006-09-10 20:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex until you are married. Just because you want to does not mean you should. There are always risks, nothing is 100 percent safe not to mention the other issues within a relationship. Do it right and wait until U are married.
2006-09-10 20:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by miss_jennifer79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your married , don't let that boyfriend of your convince you sex is the only way he will love you , if he says to you " prove you love me " and suggest the only way to prove to him your love for him is to sleep with him , kick him to the curb, you only have your virginity 1 time then it's lost forever . Graduate from high school and college and get yourself a good job . Find yourself a good man get married then have sex ....if you do these things I guarantee you will not regret it......
2006-09-10 20:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Baguio_bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you use some form of protection they chances of you getting pregnant are much lower. You should have sex when you feel ready...but don't rush things unless you are absolutely sure.
2006-09-10 20:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tricia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex when you want but make sure you use protection. And Go slow the first time. no need to rush things.
2006-09-10 20:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Airzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do have sex make sure that you always always always use some sort of contraceptive device, be it condoms or birth control pills or whatever. They are very effective but not 100%.
2006-09-10 20:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree and thank all of the answers telling you to WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!
You will thank us all if you follow that advice!!
This is the test of true love: If you love me, RESPECT ME!!
I know it is very hard to be chaste, but it is worth it. You are worth it. You are a princess, daughter of a King, God. Know this in your heart and protect your body. Ask God to help you. He helped me!!!!
2006-09-10 20:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by tfjea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋