I lleft my husband three month ago. and took y kids with me. i got tried of the mental abuse of stupids things. he start to take the furniture out ot the house and put it into storage so no one will sit on it. stop communication with me and never want to paid the bills. in the house hold. his is materialist and love his cars. don't want me to drive his car at all. quess what he moved in the same conplex around the way. he said that he didn;t marry me to take care of me. the kids asked me why do he still wear his wedding rings. I suffer high blood pressure, headace and dizzyness. when I left all of my sickness went away. I feel that I made the right decision , but I a puzzle by why he don't all these things to me . he just shut me out complete. any suggestion please help/
2006-09-10 12:41:58 · 7 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's just an abusive, power-hungry jerk. You made the right decision in leaving- for you & the kids.
2006-09-10 12:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs help simple as that its not normal for somebody to go to this kind of extreme by putting the furniture in storage that is very odd to say the least I can understand him loving his car but I think it was more about you having your independence by been able to drive your self around and not having him drive you every place you go so he could keep an eye on you every move you make. I would say now that your out stay out don't go back.He is a power tripper and wanted to control you.
2006-09-10 12:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Above and beyond anything else get a lawyer now!!!! The court may have a lot to say to him. You have his children and NEED a car. You are sick and NEED financial help. Then the children NEED food and clothes. He did this because he is self centered,and a Bully! You did the right thing. The reason he still wears his ring.....He probably thinks you will plead with him to come back.....DON"T!
2006-09-10 12:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U really didnt know your man atall... i guess he is crazy or just trying to do things to scare u ...u should move on with life and takecare of your kids they need u more than ever ...your man will realise his mistake but dont try making up back with him..he will thinks u dont have any choice.
2006-09-10 12:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by shivanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to decide if u still love him and if you still do and then you should fight for him. find out y he is pushing u away.
2006-09-10 12:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mo Mo H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is losing his mind
2006-09-10 12:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's an asshole?
2006-09-10 12:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by War Pig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋