Should I be offended that my husband watches porn? We often watch it together. (it was that time of the month for me) and in the middle of the night, I found my husband in the living room watching porn and doing "you know what else". Should I be grateful that he's not going out to find a live woman to satisfy him, or do I have a right to be upset/jealous about this?
2006-09-10 12:34:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're right...I do masturbate....I just wanted to confirm that I'm being stupid :) thanks
2006-09-10 12:41:40 · update #1
Why would you be upset? You would have been more offended if you walked in the living room and caught him goosing another woman on your couch!!! Take it all in stride, boo. Your man just wanted to please himself when you couldn't do it for him. There's nothing wrong with that. Now a woman like me, I would have gone in there and finished him off with a good BJ and a good night kiss since I couldn't give him any!!! Now that's what a good wife would do!!!
2006-09-10 12:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by Southern Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men watch porn and since you watched it with him, he thougt you were giving the go ahead to continue watching it. Since it was that time for you, assuming you are a clean person and don't do anything during that time, he was just taking care of his needs.
Don't be jealous. Next time you find him in that situation, speak up and offer to help him out.
2006-09-10 12:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, theres no reason to be offended, it is perfectly normal and actual healthy for a man to ejaculate quite often. It also keeps men relaxed (and women) after orgasm. My boyfriend does it all the time and I find nothing wrong with it and yes it true, I am grateful that hes doing it himself and not with another women. Try not to let it get to you and i say hey, why not do it too when hes not around.
2006-09-10 12:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should be grateful that he isn't out doing this with someone else. However, doesn't it make you wonder if it is you he is sexing or is it the females on the video? Is it you who turns him on, or the females on the video? Does he need the videos to get started? If any of these questions are yes, you both should limit watching the videos and start making your own.
2006-09-10 12:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by LadyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard one by you also watching the porn its like your sending him messages that you don't mind this what so ever. What I would be saying to him is I don't mind it when we watch it together but really would rather that you did not watch it with out me.As for him not waiting a few days for your period to be over says to me that he is highly strung sexually he may need some help with this before he goes out and gets sex else where. Good luck
2006-09-10 12:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what agreement you have. Can you talk with him about it? It would be very unusual if his act leads to anything more than hand jobs so the readers aren't capable of deciding for you cause we don't know the sense of how you two get along.
2006-09-10 12:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes be grateful he isnt out looking for a prostitute. Just make sure he isnt obsessed with porn.
2006-09-10 18:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal what he is doing. There isn't anything wrong with it really. Maybe you are feeling a bit insecure about yourself and it is running over to this issue. Try to put it out of your mind and just let him be.
2006-09-10 12:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell you this you should tell your husband to get up off his butt and stop watching and do-in his self i mean is that tthe only thing he do in his life you should have to be with a guy who is apses with something like that find something else to do go out have some fun if not then move on to a man who can do better then that then sit on his *** all day and watch porn so move on gurllllll!
2006-09-10 12:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by shanique a 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All guys do "you know what else" but they hide it or lie. Don't be jealous---it's about being selfish in sex, and pleasing himself. Do you masturbate? Honest? It's not because you don't love HIM, it's about being selfish & pleasing YOU, am I right???
2006-09-10 12:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋