how can i get her to confess
2006-09-10 12:02:00 · 13 answers · asked by texdad04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would suggest getting more solid, tangible proof instead of settling for circumstancial evidence. I mean come on, do u actually think they will tell u the truth when asked directly? Of course not.
2006-09-10 12:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, circumstancial evidence wouldn't necessarily sway a jury in court, because it isn't proof beyond a reasonable doubt.
My point is, I'm not sure how you confronted her, but if it was just actually circumstancial evidence, and she's NOT guilty of cheating, you just put a BIG rift in between yourself and her, because she thinks you don't trust her, and thinks you're spying on her.
So if she's innocent, as detailed above, then she WONT confess, and if you press her to, then you're pretty much ruining your marriage.
If she IS guilty, and she's denying it, then really what is there left to do? Leave her. If she WANTED to fix things with you, and was sorry for the affair, she wouldn't have lied.
Next time, I think, keep your mouth closed until you have a smoking gun and she's caught red-handed!
2006-09-10 12:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters are also liers you should know this... Why do you think she denied your evidence...
As far as getting her to confess, short from becoming an obsessed stalker, and gathering more "evidence", you will never get her to confess.
My advice:
You should serioulsy consider leaving the relationship because their isnt mutual honesty, respect and devotion on both parts. I know this isnt what you want to hear but, once a cheater always a cheater. Self respect is the most important part of being a human; if you dont have that... you have very little. If you do continue the relationship, she has you as her doormat... *wipe, wipe*... Doesnt sound good does it?
2006-09-10 12:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by sandrawiltzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the evidence? If she said no trust her. Dont harrass her about it or she will feel you dont trust her and it may push her to cheat. Just keep an eye out for any more evidence. Have a friend follow her for a day or a few days just to check up on her. If you can go away for a few days. For instance, visit your parents alone and let her know you are leaving for a few days. Then have the friend follow her for a few days and take pics if they see her with any men. Then come home and if nothing happened while you were gone then she isnt cheating.
2006-09-10 18:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really didn't cheat on you. In that case you're not going to get her to confess and if you badger her about it you'll drive her to the point of cheating. My advice is to sit back and keep an eye on her without letting her know of your suspicions. If and when you have enough evidence confront her but if it gets to that - really what's the point then? If she is cheating on you or was cheating on you would you really ever trust her again and would you want to be with someone like that? You have a lot to think about but before you go too far make sure you know what you're really dealing with first.
2006-09-10 12:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by sunssecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How circumstancial is the evidence.... are you sure your not making a mistake... i would do some more checking and see if i could not find out the truth before i did too much.... is there other proof or evidence in the way she is acting .... if you really want to know the truth .........you can find out................
2006-09-10 12:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by mercy me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a women will never confess.
2006-09-10 12:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make her confess. do you have real evidence to back this up? does circmstantial evidence stand up in court? I DONT THINK IT WOULD. YOU NEED HARD EVIDENCE.
2006-09-10 13:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to hire a private investigator
2006-09-10 12:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by hill bill y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋