i dont want to insult him ~ ?what should i do ?
2006-09-10 11:56:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
buy him some, saying I seen these in the store and my first thought was they would look great on you! Good Luck happy undie hunting!
2006-09-10 11:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by helper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One cardinal rule of a relationship is "never try to change a harmless habit/quirk". If that's really the undie of his choice, then you may not be able to get around offending him. However, if you really feel apprehensive about it, then you don't really have to have a heart-to-heart talk about it. Try buying him the underwear you'd like to see on him and get him to try it on just for fun. You can complement him afterwards and tell him how much more sexier he looks in that underwear. That way, you can give your man an ego-boost and at the same time, finally see him in that dream underwear. ;)
"It's not always rainbows and butterflies, it's compromise that moves us along..." - Maroon 5
2006-09-10 19:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nadz U 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take his off of him, and put a brand new pair on him after some loving, or just when you want to be somewhat sexy and take his off of him and show him the new ones you bought him as you put them on him, telling him in a sexy sort of way to see what you bought for him since you knew how great he'd look in them. I can't imagine my objecting to that. I know of one former lover, and my current wife who both have done that. I loved it years ago with my lover, and I didn't mind too much with my current wife, so, I don't think you'll have much trouble. Just be admiring of his appearance as you put his new ones on him. He'll love the attention. If not, tell him you know some men online who would love to be in his place, lolol. God Bless you.
2006-09-10 19:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say this is a Loved one. So I assume this person loves you back. So then if their is true love then, this person should not be mad at you for asking them to change their underwear for you. So Go For It, tell him to buy some different underwear. It's OK. It's your right, you have to look at them to. Fair is Fair!
2006-09-10 19:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it a turn off, everytime I pass the girl underware at walmart,and do wonder what girls still where thoes full sizes panty,like mom use to where,double, ugg.....
2006-09-10 19:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start buying his underwear for him -- if you don't want to insult him you can start by getting him something for a holiday or a birthday ("I think these would look sexy on you ..."). Then get him to switch over permanently to this new kind.
2006-09-10 19:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Janiffer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy him what you do like. If you don't want to be too obvious, throw in a sweater or some shirts too. Just tell him you were at the shops and thought of him. Also, if you do laundry, lose some of his old stuff. Tricky, but it works. :)
2006-09-10 18:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't say what kind of underwear they have. I had to switch to boxers for medical reasons. Why don't you just ask them to explain their choice. It may be no big deal, then again, maybe it might.
2006-09-10 19:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by anim8er2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go buy him some that you like. Give them as a gift.
2006-09-10 18:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about the man's underwear?
2006-09-10 19:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by inner_bakura101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋