when i was a teenager i went out with a guy who was homeless. he was into drugs, but it was actually a really sweet relationship. he looked out for me, and he was totally honest with me. i had an instinct that he was ok despite everything. i didn't really realise what i had with him until it was over. i went for a guy who everyone would 'approve of' and he really screwed me over. emotional, physical abuse lots of things. and i had met him at a family occasion and everyone said he was better than my ex. now i met a guy who is also similar. he is a hippy kind of guy. doesn't work, dropped out. i think into drugs and stuff too and doesn't have a place to live. but i am feeling him. he has asked me out a few times, and i said no. he looked real hurt. he doesn't talk to me with any bullshit and thats what appeals to me. he is good looking and now i cant stop thinking about him. but why this type? i dont get it lol
2006-09-10 11:48:46 · 7 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people just a fix it type nature, and that is what they see in a guy. They want someone who will appreciate them for who they are, and let's face it, someone who is homeless is going to appreciate you a lot. I fear that you are cutting yourself short. Look for true love & common interests. You can have someone w/ a bad boy lifestyle, but still be employed and have goals.
2006-09-10 11:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by K B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been told that once we are with abusive guys or a certain kind of guy then it is hard for us to get a guy that is nice, and does work , and can take care of you...it really does not pay for you to be with someone that does not work...and that does anything illegal...we need to find someone that works and can make us happy and enjoy life with...it is hard for me to understand how we can be attracted to the wrong kind of guy...a lot of times they are different at first then they change and get bitchy and bossy, and abusive...i hope i helped some ....but i do hope all does go well for you....take care
2006-09-10 11:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like sweet guys and you met one that had nothing and now I think your confusing it with every guy who has nothing will be just as sweet. You can find sweet guys who have a future there out there keep looking.
2006-09-10 11:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I liked bad to the bone dudes too. But most of the time them are the ones that brings trouble to you. So now as soon as I can get my hand on a geek I'll be happy. LOL!
2006-09-10 11:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sapphira♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just want something out of the ordinary. Maybe you like the drama of his life.
Bad boys are a big attraction for women. I cannot explain it, but I am the same way.
God bless those bad boyzzz!!!!
2006-09-10 11:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by love_my_4x4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do what you feel is natural for you....just don't ask anyone for sympathy when it goes wrong.
It's the appeals for sympathy afterwards that make you look like an idiot.
2006-09-10 11:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being nice to you so he can have a place to stay.
2006-09-10 11:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋