I am totally confused ,I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years,since I met him he goes to masseuses ,want to have the freedom to sleep with others .I got in an argument with him this weekend a girl that was working at my work flirted with her , she is known to want to steal boyfriends,I got upset that he had a small talk with her ,he said he just was polite and was not opening up with her for me as I told him those things about her,he said I should thanks him,he would not go with someone I know or dislike.
One thing lead into an other , I told him I don't have to thanks him for anything it is a minimum of right I have as a girlfriend.The true thing is that I try to understand his need to flirt ,try think I should do the same I can't I am in love with him, how can he tell me he is ,he slept with one person already since we are together, I want to be opened minded but inside of me it feel he is really bullshiting me and I don't know how to love him with thinking of him with othe
2006-09-10 11:32:36 · 5 answers · asked by milou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Recent studies show that they are not working. The factis that people who are not too serious about starting a relationship are not to serious or hesitative about breaking them up, married people think twice and are not careless about the consequences of their decisions.
2006-09-10 11:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As men, we love women. We cannot get enough of them. Even though the sex is the same way or it feels the same way even if your with multiple partners. I guess it's the different shapes of bodies, different looks that turn us men on! Just because he sleeps around does'nt mean he does'nt love you. He does, Alot of people will say i'm a bullshitter but I'm telling the truth you can love someone and have your fun too! All of us can, you should also have fun and go mess around i mean it's only fair since he is doing it. Oh yeah i know " but i love him" Yes, you do but you can love him and lust for others that's how it works. Do you really want to eat the same cheeseburger everyday for the rest of your life, or do you want some chicken, shrimp and steak? Think about it! ;)
2006-09-10 18:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Alucard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to have a good look at yourself in the mirror. Really stare.... for a long time. Realize what you are putting up with is garbage. This "open relationship" bulls*it is the stupidest thing to come into dating since God only knows what.
Pretend you don't have a **** or ****. What else can you offer this ****ole? If the answer is nothing, you need to re-evalute who you are and what exactly it is that you are doing to yourself.
2006-09-10 18:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he doesn't love you. Toss his butt and find a REAL man, who will cherish you and treat you right, and never cheat!
I hope you find him!
Don't EVER fall for that line from Jag above ^^^^^. That is a lie--good men LOOK at other women, but NEVER act on it if they really love you!
2006-09-10 18:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE SUCKS SOMETIMES. IF YOU DONT WANT THE WHOLE SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE TO THEN LEAVE BC SOUNDS TO ME HE NEEDS SOME HELP AND IF YOU ARE NOT INTO THAT THEN NOTHING IS GOING TO COME EXCEPT HEARTACHE TO YOU. LIKE YOU SAID HE SLEPT WITH ONE ALREADY CAN U DEAL WITH THAT AGAIN
2006-09-10 18:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋