But I cannot stop thinking about him. I fantasize about him, I fantasize about other handsome man chasing me in his office and he sees that .... etc. How can I stop it ?
2006-09-10 10:58:23 · 7 answers · asked by Natalia P 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Get out into the dating world, and stop going to that doctor. Change doctors, its a must! Also note, that your obsession is unhealthy, and will prevent you from finding true happiness. Move on.
2006-09-10 11:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your self some Harlequin Romances, then fantasize as much as you want. Everyone has a crush on the Doctor.
2006-09-10 19:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The pseudo self is of the ego which separates you from God. The ego mind believes that our salvation does not lie in loving everybody, but rather we start to believe that there is this perfect person which causes us to leave out the rest of mankind and to that extent you will be in hell no matter what they do if you wait long enough. In order to help you not feel so bad about yourself the ego mind projects these feelings on to other people. So then what happens, and it happens to all of us, we do not usually see the connection but we say to ourselves, “If only I was in love, I would not feel this way.” The ego says if I had this one special love I would not be miserable. The only way you can fill this void is not by making a connection with one special person, but rather healing your separation with God.
2006-09-10 18:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's easy to like your doctor.Because they do so much for us.Don't confuse this with Love. They have lifes and Families. Now if your Doctor liked you he might let you in on it. right? But he is a married man. I'm sure he is being a good, com pationate Doctor like he is. Please don't get it confused. Good Luck. But there are pervert Doctors out there , so watch out!
2006-09-10 20:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had a similar problem with my teacher so i moved class an found some1 else to fall in love with,love never lasts
2006-09-10 18:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by dooby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol wooow. i think maybe you should just get a new doctor. and if you dont see him anymore you can let go gradually.
2006-09-10 18:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by foxey_lady04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try checking out the dentist
2006-09-10 18:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by boywonder 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋