Hey what do i do ? im pregnate with a man"s baby and he is married?
2006-09-10 10:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by lil_baby_d0069 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My first response is to stop sleeping with married men! That is the stupidest and meanest thing any woman could do to the next. UGH!
2006-09-10 10:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by sclay95843 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems that the only thing you can do is be truthful about what's going on. if he's married then you have to figure out if he is staying with his wife or leaving her to be with you. don't get your hopes up..if he's married, he'll probably stay with her. dont ever let him trick u into keeping quiet about the baby. if this is his baby, he needs to be responsible for it. after you have the baby, if he doesnt want to be with you, he still needs to take care of his baby. you can get child support from him to help you take care of the baby, make sure you list his name as the father on the birth certificate if they let you. a friend of mine was married and had a child by another man, so they didnt let her put the other father's name on the birth certificate, so i dont know if they will let you put his name on it since he is married. just make sure not to say he ISN'T the father, because that will hurt you and the baby in the future.
2006-09-10 10:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to know. Then you both need to come up with a solution best for the situation. Sooner or later some one will have to tell his wife. Trust me she will find out about this. I don't believe in abortion as birth control, and I don't believe it is right for him to abandon one family just because he starts another. He is now responsible for 2 families. You will have to endure the shame of helping destroying a marriage. Remember if he leaves her for you more than likely he will leave you for the next her.
2006-09-10 10:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by PSL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? Does he know? First of all, you have the baby if you want to.....But keep in mind that you were his side chick and that this baby isn't going to change anything...He's not gonna leave his wife for you, heck he may be in denial and be totally un-supportive. So just prepare yourself for that and lean on family and friends for support. They may come down on you about your circumstances but things happen....and you'll be alright.
2006-09-10 10:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by pregnant & praying now has baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 have the baby, definitely. the kid shouldn't pay for your mistake. 2 tell him. he'll probably just blow you off because if he really loved you, he'd be with you and divorced by now. and three be happy about it. if he's going to cheat on his wife now, what says he wouldn't do the same to you. and no offense, as I was in that situation before(not pregnant) but it's karma. good luck and enjoy your new baby!!
2006-09-10 10:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with sclay95843
2006-09-10 10:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Plummer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good hun, if your religion allows it and it was me i wouldn't have it.
But that's just me, i'm selfish
2006-09-10 10:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋