my best friend likes my x boyfriend and she wants to ask him out . she didnt even tell my i found out from one of her other friends. what do i do?????
2006-09-10 10:36:35 · 13 answers · asked by taylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends come before gf/bf's. So, for your friend to ask this ex of yours out, I'm sure it hurts. This person was probably there for you during good times and bad & now has the person YOU gave your heart to! Doesn't seem fair, but it does happen. If your friendship is worth saving, talk to her!! Be as grown up as you can be to decide whether or not it's worth saving. Remember ALL of the things you two have been through, not just this awful thing. As for your ex, his is your ex for a reason. It didn't work out with you two, and it may not work out for them...but girl you gotta look the other way when it comes to this guy. If you let him see you sweat, you might regret it. Guys are odd in the way that if you don't get upset over this, they will wonder how you got to be so strong! It makes you look very good in their eyes. There is a saying: "Fake it til you make it!". Those words will help you through a lot of things if you let them.
2006-09-10 11:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her. And ask her why of all men she had to pick yours. She isn't your best friend at all. I would drop her as a friend. Tell her not to say nothin else to you because you have nothing to say to her. With friends like those, who needs enemies?
2006-09-10 17:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what !! He's your ex, your not dating him anymore, why should you give a damn? You mean to tell me that if you date 20 different people, no one you know can date them when your finished with them, that dont make any sense !
2006-09-10 17:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dating my best friends ex husband. As long as you don't want him back, what's the problem?
2006-09-10 17:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by sadaunt78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you still like or love him and want him back tell her, but if your done with him for good let her have him and move on.
2006-09-10 17:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by dixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your ex so what??? if it was a messy split talk to your friend about it and tell her that it bothers you...but if it wasn't what's the problem??
2006-09-10 17:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by bball_rox_lots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell her look i thought we were friends... if you my real friend you would NEVER do this....
1
likeing my x
2 never tell me this
and 3
trying to ask him out.
tell her these reasons if she doesn't listen then she is not your friend at all.
2006-09-10 17:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell to your boy friend that my friend she like you and see what ho will say to you
2006-09-10 17:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Hussain N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your ex-so what why are you worried your not with him and dont go back to him -move on!
2006-09-10 17:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by domazina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HER GO!!! HE'S YOUR EX!!!!!!!!!!!! HELLO!?!?! YOU TWO OBVIOUSLY BROKE UP FOR A REASON. NOW THAT YOU'RE THROUGH WITH HIM, FIND ANOTHER GUY!
2006-09-10 17:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋