My ex died on Wednesday, He always had a place in my heart and I was devasted to hear about his death. He did have a girlfriend an other kids with her as well I have one with him also. My question is I didn't get the chance to let him know how I felt about him what should I do, I do have a boyfriend but since I left his funeral my feeling are strong for him now. I need help!
2006-09-10 10:21:55 · 9 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1st of all..im so so sorry for ure lose, but i think this event just stormed up all ure old feelings, brought back old memories and old feelings. its painfull especialy becouse u have a kid with him, is normal all ure feelings to come up to light now..but it dosnt mean are strong ore romantic ..maybe are just memories full of pain coz u know ull miss him :( all u can do is talk with ure kid about his father, about the man he was.
2006-09-10 10:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by dafneeselena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss~Your feelings are probably stronger now because he did die and all the memories are still there. He will know how much you loved him by taking good care of your child that you had with him, reminding your son or daughter about there father that passed away and how great he was ~ that will let him know and your child will know how great there Dad was.
2006-09-10 10:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, First I'm sorry. There is nothing you can do for or to him now. He's gone and he knows what is in your heart.
Regarding his child you had with him , call your Social Security office, you might be able to get $$$ to help you raise his daughter.
having lost my wife, I know it hurts, but hang in there and take care of your baby.
2006-09-10 10:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're always going to have a soft spot in your heart for an ex, especially one by which you had a kid with. just love your child and let him/her know how wonderful his/her dad was. just raise your kid well and see the good qualities of your ex in him. you're going through the grieving process which is extremely long and tough to get through. so stick with it!
2006-09-10 10:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are grieving the what if we had stayed together, plus he is the father of your child, all normal. You can dream of him and tell him how you feel and say goodbye.
2006-09-10 10:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help how you feel. let your boyfriend know the way you feel. talk it over and do what at the moment is best. youll figure it out.
2006-09-10 10:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by pickelsnmustard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with ur bf for now.
2006-09-10 10:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's dead. You're not getting back together.
2006-09-10 10:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't do anything bout it now.
2006-09-10 10:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋