My wife recently told me that she had a fantasy of being with a female hooker. She said she'd like me to do it. She said she'd never cheat, but wants to get it out of her system. She wants me to go get a blonde wig and a red minidress with stripper heels. I'm not sure but she did say she would do anything I wanted after. She promised no phots or anything, just me and her? Has any girls or guys ever done this ?
2006-09-10 10:19:13 · 27 answers · asked by ladidadi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why wouldn't you do this? I am sure there are PLENTY of times she's done stuff she didn't want to do. At least she is admitting she is having this fantasy and not acting upon it by cheating on you. A fantasy is what a fantasy is... a FANTASY. Maybe after you do it, it won't be everything she thought and it'll be over.
If not, maybe you guys can share clothes.
2006-09-10 11:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by socalicd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That request is totally wrong. Doesn't your wife understand that mini dresses are out of style? LOL Seriously, fantasies are fun. As long as nobody get hurt, and they don't cross into obsession- have a blast. Personally, I'd be up for anything my wife wanted to try, with the possible exception of whips, chains, and high explosives. Buy a 5 gallon can of KY jelly, Grease up the parallel bars, mount the handlebars on the headboard, and ridddeee. Someday, you'll be old, and you'll smile remembering when that bent, grey haired old lady next to you, was a kinky, wildly hot young, horny woman. BUT, forget just dressing as a hooker. BE the hooker. Take a weekend, and go where nobody knows you. Let the wife take the car, and go to a club- alone. You, dress in the motel, and cab to the club. Then, pick up your wife, hustle her back to the motel, and do your dammedest to be the hottest, most sloutty hoor your wife could lust for. Remember, sex is only dirty, if you do it right. Enjoy. Also, pics would probably be wrong. But, perhaps a video camera set up in the motel would be better. Darn it guy- GO FOR IT. Put some heart into it.
2006-09-10 18:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm that depends on what u want to accomplish. If her happiness is everything to u and it's not too much of a stretch for u to do so, then why not? AT the same time, u do have a right to tell her if u feel uncomfortable with the idea of doing it too often because u shouldn't have to feel pressured into doing something u feel uncomfortable doing.
My suggestion would be to try it at least once and see how that goes.
2006-09-10 17:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know people get divorced some times and how would you know she would keep that a secret if she got mad at you, or you had a bad divorce or something like that and besides you are a guy arent you then why would you want to let your wife talk you into being a chick. i think maybe your wife likes chicks and i wouldnt care what kind of a fantasy it is or was or anything about it i would think about that. you are a guy and should act and be respected as a guy not made into a girl.
2006-09-10 17:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! it is a very natural thing for a man or a woman to act out there fantasies as long as those fantasies are kept among the two of you,yes if that's what she wants you to do,I say do it.add some spice to your marriage,there is nothing wrong with getting crazy and a little kinky,and freaky to make a fantasy happen,it sounds silly but you just might enjoy it more than you think,it could bring you lots of tasteful pleasures and than think of the reward that will follow,always be true to each other and have lots of kinky fun, crazy times among the two of you.
2006-09-10 17:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by lil frogger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it !! It is sick and not a good sign with regards to your wife. Why would you do something like that to please anyone. Your not a cross dresser, so don't do it. Is she a bi ? She said she would do anything that you wanted her to do. She might end up getting mad at you and telling her friends that your a cross dresser. What other things does she have hiding in her closet ? You poor man. Don't fall for that one. She is making a damned fool out of you.
2006-09-10 17:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have different fantasies (that one in particular would do nothing for me.) If you are ok with it go for it. Just make sure there is no hidden cams or some kind of camera around. They have lots of halloween costumes now and I bet you can find one that is a hooker one. Have her dress up as well as a pimp daddy. You might just have fun with it who knows.
2006-09-10 17:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, sounds odd, but I would at least be willing to discuss such a thing with my wife. The best thing I can say here is that she is open to discussing this with you.
How do you look in heels?
2006-09-10 18:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by But why is the rum always gone? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will, i don't know about a guy dressing up as a girl but, some girls fantasy is to have sex with a girl cause we girl just know how and where to hit the shot, but never heard of guy dressing up as a girl maybe a doctor but not girl... i always wanted a three some with my husband. but it's up to you .. have fun.
2006-09-10 17:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by nandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have but if it's her fantasy" and it's you who would be the blondie the hooker" DAM man go for it. no one knows what goes on in your bedroom. but the two of you. just be glad she didn't bring home a hooker.
2006-09-10 17:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋