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i think im just werid, i have been doing its sence i was 9. i just cant stop, is it normal or something bad? Im afraid to go to the OBGYN for birth contorl becasue i hear he looks down there, and i dont want anyone to know what i do.

2006-09-10 09:11:57 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Women's Health

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You are normal dear. Has much as I don't like to admit it, I too started at a young age. I can't remember when I started masturbation. For the longest time I didn't know what I was doing. I kept it a secret from everyone for the longest time. Now that I am a lot older I know now that it is normal. So you are not the only one that started at a young age.
LB

P.S I never was abused then or now, so not sure how this all started. Just exploring I guess.

2006-09-10 12:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by L B 1 · 0 0

Yes, it is normal. And if you're wanting to get birth control, you're sexually active anyway, so the OBGYN will have -no way- of knowing if it is with-partner or otherwise that causes any visible signs... (People who say that it is not normal usually have a religious reason for thinking that ANY sexual act is wrong. If it isn't against your -own- moral code, don't worry about it.)

2006-09-10 09:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Red 3 · 0 0

yes its normal, besides the obgyn can't tell that you do that just by looking, unless you are doing some really odd things, which I doubt. You wouldn't feel weird going to your regular doctor for an ear infection, don't feel weird going to the obgyn for birth control and a check up, that's their job.

2006-09-10 09:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by cyunos 2 · 0 0

Masturbation is normal for men and women IF it is something you do naturally and no one taught you to do this at the age of 9.

Masturbation is about discovering sexual pleasure centers in your body and then manipulating them for your personal pleasure.

Your Ob-Gyn is a professional and will only discuss masturbation if you bring it up.

No worries!

By the way, if you are not married, why do you need birth control?

Be a virgin on your wedding night!

Masturbate till then, and maybe after!

2006-09-10 09:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How else do you learn how to ride a bike unless you practice? of course it's normal! I'm so glad I know what turns me on, because I touch myself! I've been with guys who don't know what the h*ll they're doing down there...luckily I do! Guys who masturbate go for hours! because they know tentric techniques. That's better than two minutes...and boom it's over! the OBGYN isn't going to know what you've been doing, unless you go in right after sex with a man, and you're leaking! They already know women masturbate, too...and they don't care...they're kind-of numb from seeing so much crotch...one's just like the next.

2006-09-10 09:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie 3 · 0 0

it extremely is ordinary on account it extremely is the only way they might launch their build-up sexual energies. If would be way better than having outright intercourse which would be unprotected by using fact of their immaturity. I say that it relatively is a lot extra better than doing it with somebody of the choice intercourse. the only problems indexed below are in the event that they: a million) do it publicly, or 2) do it continuously. Boys generally do it 5 cases a week, in accordance to psychologist Kinsey, by using fact they might get extremely attractive now and back and it consequences to undesirable effects in the event that they do no longer do it. women generally do it two times a month. as long because it do no longer intrude with their daily existence consisting of analyzing or taking part in activities, it extremely ordinary. while you're in touch approximately faith, merely prepare them to steer away from lusting on a similar time as giving themselves a job. which will do exactly nice.

2016-09-30 13:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by cosco 4 · 0 0

yes, masturbation is normal. believe me if people didnt masturbate we'd all probably have exploded by now. going to obgyn is a normal thing for us women. you should go. my advice. and if you dont feel comfortable with a man looking , ask if they have female doctors there. believe your gonna be happy in the end knowing that your healthy. ;)

2006-09-10 09:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

yes but since 9? how often you do it may be a problem. are you talking like 25 times a day or 5 times a week?

2006-09-10 09:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it is perfectly normal to do that, trust me, some of us have started younger. and the only way he/she can really tell, is if you voluentee that information. when the hymen is broken the is when they will know that you have or been sexually active, but when this happens you will bleed and it WILL hurt and you WILL know. some girls are more prone to do that type of thing, whether you do it a lot or a little, it's fine, I used to be the same way. but if it interferes with your daily life, then you have a problem.

2006-09-10 09:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Panda 3 · 0 0

It's normal no worries - obgyn's seen it all before anyway. There is no way of him/her telling that you masterbate by just looking at you since your hymen could be broken by sports etc - well or sex if you are sexually active.

2006-09-10 09:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Laura T 3 · 0 0

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