Do you tell your spouse everything?

Question

Is not saying the same as lieing?
Do you want to know everything ,and do you want your spouse to recite every detail of every conversation?

Answer 1

tell her every frikint hing you can possibly tell her...talk as much as you can till she tells you to shut up..that way there are no surprises and shocks..and you're clear of fear...haha clear of fear ;]

Answer 2

everything? from what i wear to the food i eat and the list goes on? you have to be more specific. for me, not saying doesn't mean you're lying, though in the eyes of some, its the same as hiding the truth which means you're lying... but saying untrue things especially when the other person has already known the truth can and will get you into trouble. I'd rather my partner tells me the truth then stupidly assures me with the untrue version of things, for only the truth will set you free. be direct once and for all will not let you worry over how to lie over the other lies that you've been telling. i don't like the idea of keeping scores of the lies. so, its either i have nothing to say or i say the truth with of course, the fact that I'm already prepared for the worse that is.
i do not wish to know everything but if i chance upon something, I'd rather hear the truth. reciting every detail of every conversation is not necessary. if it is, i would have been a great screen writer for the story of my life.

Answer 3

YES; I share everything with my spouse, and vice versa. Honesty is the best policy. And if you haven't done anything wrong, you have no reason to be dishonest.

If you've done something you feel you have to keep from your spouse, that's guilt bugging you in my opinion. And if you're being nagged by guilt, because you did something you know you aren't supposed to do in marriage, then you don't really have a "marriage", now do you?

To me, not saying something is the same as lying - because just like with lying, if you're not telling someone the truth whether by false words or withholding words, it's the same... but again, that's FOR ME. You and others may view it differently.

But that's my opinion, for what it's worth.

Answer 4

I'm divided on this. My husband is in the military and unfortunitally we almost never see each other. We make what we can of our relationship at this point, but really can't tell each other everything in 2-15min phone calls a week. There has been instances though where he has found out something that has happened and asked why I didn't tell him about it. He feels like I should, just like some things I feel like he should, or doesn't. To me it's not lying..I mean I don't want to know how many times my husband took a sh** this week! lol Good luck!

Answer 5

Yes I tell my spouse everything along with my mom, my dad and my bestfriend. Omitting something on purpose, is the same as lying. I would be upset with my spouse if he left out something like another woman hitting on him.

Answer 6

I actual have been married 5 years and we tell one yet another each little thing. in spite of the fact that in this occasion i do no longer think of it rather is mandatory to tell him except he asks you. with the aid of fact it handed off till now you adult men met and handed off very quickly the place the guy purely had a chop up 2nd to furnish you oral intercourse,I dont think of it rather is going to do any stable lots make your hubby unnecessarily jealous over some thing which you didnt even prefer to do. Dont sense accountable which you're protecting some thing from him considering which you're rather no longer in a manner (it replaced into till now him, you didnt prefer to try this, and confident you have been nevertheless a virgin even nonetheless a guy needed some oral intercourse). If it nevertheless haunts you and you prefer to tell him do it for the sake of letting it out, yet be arranged that he gets somewhat disillusioned with the aid of fact he's your husband and there is an inner instinct to guard you and to maintain you his very own (no longer meaning your his sources, yet extra like a non secular bond with you) he gets somewhat jealous its inevitable, yet while he's logical and clever he will comprehend.

Answer 7

No not every little thing . I don't keep things from him that I believe that is important..I don't lie to him but there are things I'm sure everyone has kept from their spouse ..But nothing bad..I will do anything to protect my family from hurt or danger..

Answer 8

No one can recite their entire day. I tell him the big things or really anything that he should know! I don't mention how many times a went to the bathroom, lol.

Answer 9

Id say if i had to put a percentage on it that we are 90% open and honest about everything.. im sure there are little things that we feel arent necessary to discuss with each other.. that are trivial.. but i think for the most part we are very open and honest with each other..and we talk ALOTTTTTTTTT so im thinking most is covered..

Answer 10

I have told my spouse everything I never once have lied to him he's told me everything too I believe it's best to lay everything down on the table so their will be no questions about anything since my husband and I have layed everything down on the table about life we have no questions for eachother their isn't anything to ask

Answer 11

Have you heard the saying: Your left hand doesn't always tell the right hand what they are doing. No one is saying keep secrets, but you know. You don't have to tell everything. Some things are better left unsaid, and he may not want to hear everything anyway.