The nice guy calls you up and asks you out. He flirts with you and talks to you when he sees you. He's not afraid of you saying no or otherwise being rejected. He doesn't let other people walk all over him. He stands up for what he believes in, and takes the steps to make it happen.
On the other hand, "bad boys" are weak and insecure. They overcompensate by being loud, vulgar, and attention-seeking. Women love these men, and falsely believe that they are "confident".
Why are women in such denial about this?
2006-09-10 08:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have no denial... MY nice guy is the love of my life and I yearn to MAKE HIM happy. He treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king alittle bowing down and putting up on a pedestal never hurt anyone.
The bad boy images turn me off for they generally need someone to smack them upside the head and get their butt on track financially... I am not into babysitting & paying badboy's ways through life... I will stick to the nice ones... aaaaaaah life is good ! : )
2006-09-10 09:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sadly, many women lack the confidence to find out if a nice guy is as exciting as a bad boy. Truth is....bad boys may seem fun and exciting at first, but lack staying power for the long term....I personally prefer a lil of both. I want a man with intelligence, humour and lil bad boy for fun, yet responsible and caring....caring doesn't mean weak either.
2006-09-10 08:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Firefly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I speak from personal experience. The "nice" guys I've dated turn out to be looking for me to make them happy, and make themselves into a doormat, which I cannot respect. Your definition of a nice guy is the definition I have of a real man.
2006-09-10 08:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who is this "nice guy" you speak of? i havent met any men like this. from personal experience though, i've found tht the "bad boy" is the one tht gave me the most attention. Women crave attention, phone calls, not too much but enough. Nice guys always say they call b/cause they didn't want to "piss me off".
2006-09-10 08:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me guess.... You are a Single "Nice Guy"?
2006-09-10 08:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to doubleyourdating.com type in address and read a paragraph. best thing that you can do.
2006-09-10 09:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by bigrman17 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋