whar do you do when u are being teased about ur looks in school??????

Answer 1

i cry, eat and cut myself with razors

Answer 2

Sometimes guys or girls do this for attention.
Sometimes it is a bad learned behavior.
Sometimes they are jealous.
Sometimes they just want to be cruel and enjoy cruelty.
If that is your photo you look attractive enough to me.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I found some of my older photos from when I was younger. I was teased so badly about my freckles that until now since I know I am an attractive older woman I did not realize just how pretty I was because I had low self esteem from being abused as a young child, in my first marriage and by kids at school. Just remember what it is like and that there is not any way possible those people feel good about themselves if they are sincere about what they say. Gravitate towards people who do not do that. Set a better example. Smile very warmly at them and try to melt that hardness inside of them. Wish them a good day. Tell them the truth that is not funny put them on the spot but do it nicely. Or just ignore them go on and do not let them be worth your time of day. Do they do it when you are alone then they are bullies. Go talk to the principal or the teachers. If they call you a fink big deal they are an abuser. Talk to your parents about it. Put them in their place and say I do not bother you why do you bother me? Are you looking for someone to pick on whom you percieve as being weaker than you are because you are a Bully. But make sure you do this when other people are around so they can hear it but say it nicely. What I remember of teasing is it is usually started by one person who is not very nice who gets others to join in such that it becomes harrassment and abusive.

Answer 3

Only people who are truely insecure themselves feel the need to hurt other people with name calling.. Misery loves company.. and they need to feel better about themselves by putting others down.. its because they hate something about themselves.. pay no attention to them.. Im 33 years old.. and im telling u right now.. that 90% of the "popular" crowd.. are going to end up fat, ugly..and in dead end jobs.. the ones that people consider ugly or geeky looking are going to turn into beautiful swans.. and the ones that are studious (nerds) ect.. are going to end up rich with beautiful spouses lol.. so dont let anyone ever get u down know that ur beautiful on the inside and that means alot more to people in the "REAL" world then being beautiful on the outside.. Beauty is only skin deep.. i was a very chunky kid ..and i got teased not only by kids at school but by certain family members.. so i know how it feels.. trust me... you'll have ur time of glory.. just know that its comming theirs is now.. and they'll wish they had it later on when it does matter :) the popular girls.. when i was in school look 10 years older then i do lol.. they didnt age well at all lol.. and suddenly they are seriously nice lol.. guess they learned the hard way .. dont lose urself to idiots.. know that ur better then they ever will be.. ON THE INSIDE.. and god doesnt make mistakes.. and your exactly the way he wanted u to be...and ur perfect in his eyes, and his eyes should be all that matters to u..

Answer 4

Give it right back, the ones who tease have the most to worry about because they are self centered. Tell them as an example, I may have a bad hair cut but you have a big nose, my hair will grow but that honker is for ever.

Answer 5

The school counselor and tell him or her. That's what I do and I even went to a growth group and now when I have a zitty face i don't really care what people think and I stay positive about myself, no matter what you look like and I don't see you I still think you are beautiful.

Answer 6

Do they tease you about something you can change, like the way you dress? If not, just stick to your friends. Join a sport or a club and get good at it.

Answer 7

You ignore the situation. Tell them they need to stop. Don't ever tell on that person or the situation gets worse. If you ignore them it will be hard for them to make fun of your look if you don't care. Then they will stop. And if you see people wearing cool clothes don't feel like you have to change into there clothes. Be who you are.

Answer 8

I wouldn't neccesarily take it as a negative. In school, I always teased the girls I liked.

Angelina Jolie was teased in high school constantly. The other children refered to her as fish lips. Who'd that joke turn on?

Usually the hottest girls are teased in school, because the guys are scared to approach such a pretty girl, so they resort to playful teasing. It eleminates the girls options of being able to shoot down the guys self-esteem.

Just smile and remember, it's just because your'e so hot! :-)

Answer 9

i was teasted too, when it is happening it is hard to ignore i know, but u will remember you will grow up and these ppl will no longer be a part of your life, school is only one phase, use it to become smarter, learn who you are, what u like to do, figure out your style and ignore other ppl, all your energy should be put into being yourself and being happy no matter what, there are ppl who love you!

Answer 10

You go to a teacher or counselor, tell them what's going on, and ask them not to tell the people who teased you that you told them. Then smile serenely and watch as they get in trouble.

Answer 11

I'd take a good long look at myself in the mirror and if I still like what I see I'd not mind what people are saying about me.