and i always feel pain in my stomach except one partener who had a medium p**** and worst of all i dont reach my orgasm pliz help me i dnt know wat this disease is called?
2006-09-10 07:54:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's not a disease so don't worry. Many women cannot get off with normal intercourse. Try oral sex or masturbation and just relax and enjoy it.
2006-09-10 07:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to rule out any medical causes you should seek the help of a gynecologist to make sure things are ok - pain during sex is not normal.
As for not having an orgasm, that is not uncommon - especially if you have partners who don't care about you and are only interested in their own orgasms. You either need to speak up and tell them how to give you pleasure or you need to learn to give it to yourself before or during intercourse. My best advice is to get a basic book, such as "The Joy of Sex" and READ it.
You could also be anxious (about pregnancy, lack of appeal from your partners, etc).
Be sure you're using a type of birth control that A) fits your lifestyle; and B) is effective, allows for spontaneity, and easy to use (the pill, Lea's Shield, etc, plus condoms with a new partner -ALWAYS practice safe sex to prevent STDs!).
More than likely what will happen is that once you've found a reason for the pain and it stops AND you learn how to enjoy sex by having orgasms and getting rid of your anxiety/stress, you're going to enjoy sex a WHOLE lot!
2006-09-10 08:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor
2006-09-10 08:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by rikv77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mind is too preoccupied with other things to enjoy sex and/or you aren't all that into the person you are with, sexually.
2006-09-10 07:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuck! plz wait till your maried and dont have to worry about getting pg
2006-09-10 12:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by threescompantgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to see a psychiatrist.
2006-09-10 08:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew
2006-09-10 08:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋