my old friend denisse left and know this other girl is my friend and when i say somthink like i love that song she sais she dose to but when i ask her something that i know i never anserd she waites until i anser and whenmever i tell her to stop she lookes as if she was gonna cry and i dont know what to do
2006-09-10 07:53:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have a heart to heart with her. Tell her you like your friends to be originals and it makes you wonder how original she is if she has no opinion of her own. Tell her you like her friendship but this one thing really bugs you.
2006-09-10 07:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person may need a friend really badly. She is trying really hard to do things that would make you happy. You should be nice and polite and explain to her that she doesn't not necessarily have to like everything just as you do. She might really like a lot of the things that you do and most friends have the same interest, but they don't have to agree on everything.
2006-09-10 15:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by beta_slave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that she's doing everything she can to impress her and for you not to change your mind on continuing being friends with her. Many people do this just so that they are accepted, this however, can end up in tragedy. One or both parties will end up hurt eventually.
You have to sit down with her, speak quite directly to her, tell her what is going on with her, and that it incommodes you. Tell her that you would accept her as she is, even if she thinks she does not feel accepted. This type of problem can lead both of you in unsatisfactory results, and you don't want that. Advise her not to try to be someone she is not.
2006-09-10 15:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to have a friend just like it. i told her off she took it pretty hard but after i apolised we were friends again. shes moved away now
2006-09-10 15:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by red_star_56 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs you as a friend sooner or later you will develope that friendship and in the end... you will soon find out..
2006-09-10 14:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pitboss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go easy on her she just met you and some people are soft you can't expect every body to be hard. go easy don't hurt her feelings.
2006-09-10 15:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by foxymama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to hard to impress you
2006-09-10 14:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋