My boyfriend has a very sensitive penis. It's been that way as long as I've known him, he was a virgin when we got together so I doubt he has a STI. If I slightly nudge the tip, it reallly hurts him. Also It's reallly very red when erect. I thought it could be something to do with his foreskin at first, it doesnt go back when he is erect and it won't go easily if you try to pull it back yourself. in fact last time I tried he shrieked out in pain. I told him he might have some kind of infection, but i wasnt 100% sure and said he should go to the doctors but he said he doesnt want to. But It's not getting any better, it's really affecting our love life, because he just curls over in pain after intercourse. I know its a very sensitive subject for a guy but because I keep telling him to sort it out he just gets mad and says he doesnt want to talk about it. I don't know what to do, but it's unfair as I could catch somthing If it is a infection. What do i do? Any ideas what it could be also?
2006-09-10 07:09:00 · 8 answers · asked by toyotagirl 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I don't think its to do with him not washing under his foreskin because he's a clean freak, he actually has a mild case of ocd, which causes him to wash his hands alot... so It's possible he might be cleaning too much... but he wont talk to me about that either, he just totally freezes me out if I mention it.
2006-09-10 07:54:13 · update #1
That's horrible!!! He definitely needs to go to a doctor. You guys deserve to have a normal sex life. And he definitely deserves not to be in such pain. He HAS to go... this is ridiculous. Tell him that you know it's embarrassing to talk about, but it is NOT normal and it is affecting your relationship in a negative way. Tell him that if he refuses to go to the doctor, you will leave him. And do it. I hate to sound mean, but he HAS to wake up and take care of that.
2006-09-10 07:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is that difficult to retract the foreskin, he's likely not washing under there very well either, and the chance that he has an infection that needs attention is pretty high.
Get his butt to a doctor, don't take no for an answer. If he has an infection, he could give it to you! Tell him that!
2006-09-10 14:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a doctor that is what they are there for. It could be something as simple as a yeast infection. A few antibiotics later and yall will be back to normal. If he sees a doctor already he may prescribe something over the phone or tell you something to get at the store.
2006-09-10 15:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a rare but serious infection. My cousin had the same problem and he waited too long. They had to circumcise him all over again and he suffered badly. The doctor said if he had come in sooner it would have been able to be treated. First no more sex until he gets it checked out. Second get it checked out fast.
2006-09-10 14:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a possible infection you could always lie to him and tell him he gave you a yeast infection and that must be what he has and tell him he will have to go to the doctor because you asked and they said it could rot off. be creative. you don't have to say the lie I said, but it is a lesson you have to learn in life. Men don't like to be told what to do, you have to trick them into it being their idea.
2006-09-10 14:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by leahb1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be an infection... could even be a 'boil' inside it that simply needs lanced and it will heal up in a week.
2006-09-10 14:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts that bad, get him to a doctor to check it out. It shouldnt be like that.
2006-09-10 14:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Big Boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an internal boil... they can really be sore. ANd if messed with get MORE sore in minutes...
2006-09-10 16:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋