I have been secretly sleeping with a friend's ex. He makes me feel like a godess. He babies me and treats me great... and the you-know-what is out of sight!!! They were divorced forever ago and neither of them make any attempt at reconciliation. Am I wrong?
2006-09-10 06:05:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your asking the question then you certainly know the answer.
2006-09-10 06:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you didn't talk to your friend and see how she feels. Her x may be trying to get back at her in some way to get you. It shows a real value of friendship that you talk to her and let her know she probably has entrusted you with information of her marriage and divorce you should give her the respect to see how she feels!
I think what your doing is b.s. As far as being out of sight may I add what ever goes around comes around! Good luck!
2006-09-10 13:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think it is wrong?
If you think it is wrong, and you do it… then it is wrong !
The thing you need to consider is that one day, your friend WILL find out about it.
So the question you need to ask is “how much do you value her friendship”?
If you value her friendship, then perhaps you should approach her, and say that you have grown to feel (beginning to feel) very close to her ex, and you would like to know how she feels about it.
Just make sure for your own peace of mind, that her ex isn’t just using you to get back at her!!!
2006-09-10 13:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to loose your friend keep at it. It's a rule that has been around forever. Ex's are always off limits! If you love him, I understand you can't pick and choose who you fall in love with. but, put yourself in her shoes. really think about it, don't just say "I wouldn't care" just because it's the answer you want.
2006-09-10 13:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not value your freind, its fine! make sure he is not doing some extra smoozing to get you to go against his ex, then in time he will appaer a different man.
2006-09-10 13:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very dangerous ground. I can honestly assume that if your friend were to find out about your relationship, your friend would say goodbye.
2006-09-10 13:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by dorkybitca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. because in the end when he's tired of you your going to lose him and your friend. and he will get tired of you trust me I'm a man and we all do it.
2006-09-10 13:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice going, good game till it ends.
2006-09-10 13:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to lose your friend, yes.
2006-09-10 13:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by NickyO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice to meet you, denise richards.
2006-09-10 13:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋