how do i get my wife to use a strap on on me?

Question

have brought it up but she kinda ignored it

Answer 1

Don't worry your not alone in this fantasy!

Anal penetration is fast becoming the sex du jour among het couples -- but not in the way you might think. Time was when guys were desperate to **** their gals up the ***, and many females were reluctant -- because, dammit, it hurt. According to a recent survey conducted by Underwire, the issue of coming in the back door still leads to power struggles. Well, pucker up, fellas -- it's your turn to bend over. These days the focus is on gals sticking it to their menfolk -- and the menfolk are loving it.


The rise in the number of straight men who take it up the *** comes to us courtesy of sex toy technology. It turns out that the mighty dildo has even greater potential than its obvious uses for masturbation and lesbian *******. A woman can strap one on, lube it up, and **** her man, a genderbending role reversal if ever there was one.


Anal sex, though, isn't for the faint-hearted. The delicate rectal tissues are prone to tearing, so careless anal sex can be painful. Anal sex in general can also be a high-risk activity for transmission of HIV and other STDs. Therefore, a bit of preparation is required before plunging in. Lubrication and communication are essential, and condoms are highly recommended even if you don't intend to share your new cock between two buttholes -- condoms will help keep your toy clean and make the ride up his back door a little smoother. In addition to this, self education about gear and methodology is a good idea.


That the activity has become popular among adventurous and even ordinary souls is proven by the success of such books as Jack Morin's Anal Pleasure and Health (Down There Press). Reading about sex, though, can be dry; Fatale Video saw a hole and filled it with Bend Over Boyfriend.


True to the current trend in sex videos, BOB is equal parts education and titillation. Sex educators take viewers through the ins and outs of male-receptive anal intercourse, and the information is interspersed with scenes of couples doin' it for themselves. Two of the couples are novices, while the third, Carol Queen and Robert Morgan, are experienced players. For those who are squeamish or turned off by anal penetration of either gender, a view of Carol strapping it on and tenderly ******* her boy is guaranteed to open your mind, if not other body parts.


A sequel to BOB dispenses with education and cuts right to the chase: The purpose of the second video, like most porn, is to get viewers hot. Whether it gets you hot will, of course, depend on your proclivities: When I told my sister I was writing this piece, she said, "Oh my God! I had no idea that people did such things!"


Apparently, people do.


Marcy Sheiner is editor of the Herotica series and The Oy of Sex: Jewish Women Write Erotica. She has written for Playboy, Penthouse,TheSan Francisco Bay Guardian, and many other publications. Including Her book Sex for the Clueless

Answer 2

Wife Strap On

Answer 3

Damn there's a lot of freaking retarded ppl here. I'll give you a simpel answer, there is no one straighter than me, I LOVE women, have gay friends butthink they have F-ed up minds. I have a great sex life with my partners, and I always said, as long as it is a woman, le ther do whatever she wants, as long as she is also responsive to your needs in bed then go ahead man, even if it is a ifnger she puts in, she is still a woman. It is freakin retarded when someone says that if u have anal then u r gay ( cuz gay ppl have anal ) well gays and lesbos also finger each other, then I guess if u finger agirl u r alesbian....that is Fu-cken stupid. Specially, she is your wife, let her have her fantasy, and she will repay you whenever you want one, again, she is oyur wife, there shouldnt be any taboos between the two of oyu. Ive never done it, only got rim jobs and fingers, and it feels goo,d but for astrap on I say use lube and try to get VERY relaxed!

Answer 4

Ask reeeeeeeally nicely. Tell her you won't consider cheating on her with a man if she does this for you. Then she might pound you in the a** so hard, you'll wish you hadn't wanted her to.

Therapy. Therapy. Therapy. Both of you go to therapy. You might get your wishes. Or she might get hers.

Answer 5

She is obviously not interested. Plenty of professional doms that will beat the hell out of you for a fee.

Answer 6

invite some black chick over who is willing to strap it on, and tell her, "honey, it's gonna either be you or Shaniqua."

Answer 7

u want your clacker hammered?...dude...come on now....that s**t aint right.