he lives about an hour and 1/2 from me and i really like him but i feel like i am not the only one he is seeing and dating cus i have never been to his house or dont even know is home phone number,what should i do?
2006-09-10 05:36:08 · 12 answers · asked by ivelisse1971 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is easier said than done, but you must have courage in your own convictions. If he really means so much to you then you need to start out with trust. No relationship that is going anywhere lacks this as it's foundation. Trust yourself.
Respect is another deciding factor, if you choose to open your heart to someone worthy. Respect yourself.
If you can develop these two strengths then you cannot fail and will be able to share them with him in abundance.
A worthy man, however far away, is always worth the miles. The man I consider worthy of me lives 400 miles away yet the distance is irrelevant. If this wonderful man and I grow ever more fond of each other, in time, the miles will matter less still because I am certain that I would gladly live anywhere, if it meant I could be in his arms...
2006-09-10 10:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by CC...x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try to release your doubts. They're natural, but don't let them play a too important role in your mind. Secondly, the distance might be less of an issue in a later stage of the relationship.
For example, I'm dreaming of a girl who lives in a city that is at least 5 hours away from me. And I know, for myself, that if she's as wonderful as I think she will be, I'd say goodbye to my landlord and move much closer. Long distance relationships are quite difficult, but perhaps if you'd watch "Sleepless in Seattle" you'd be more comfortable with it. An hour and a half, if I may say so, is nothing.
2006-09-10 05:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So what if he lives an hour and a half from you? It's not even that far.
And how can you say that he's the right guy for you if you feel like he's seeing other people, and if you don't even know his number?
Get to know him better before saying that he's the one.
2006-09-10 05:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
email him daily, get his number and call once a day and he will call you once a day, visit each other on weekends, and if you are of age, have him slep over on friday till sunday, If you are still in school, Ask your parents, I did that along time ago, because my ex lived soo far away we were an hour and half aprt also, But back then We did not have computers, We had to write letters to one another I wrote to him every day, I married him, Then got a divorce, But thats what you do.
2006-09-10 05:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him, find out if there is someone else in his life. Maybe you could just have an open dating policy. If you fall in love you could always become exclusive. But why not try to find out if your compatible. Dating while dating other people is OK. As long as it is known between both of you. If the spark is between you and him then he will stop dating other people as you will too. And then you can figure out where to go from there.
2006-09-10 05:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by leahb1979 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would try to have a earnest talk with him and if he doesn't admit to anything else then I would scare him with "I was thinking of moving to your town?!" Tell him you are transferring jobs or schools and watch his reaction. If he's all enthusiastic then he's not seeing anyone if he's shocked then something is up.
2006-09-10 05:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by sicinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i may not give best advices but a guy livin one hour and a half minutes away from you is not a big problem however, if u think he is seeing other girls, i think you should break up with him... i am sure any other guy out there would be your perfect guy once you meet them... well good luck!
2006-09-10 05:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by eugina l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An hour and half is not far unless your walking , this should really not be a problem unless its with him.
2006-09-10 05:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by Israel G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you knw suggest him that it wud be nice if you two cud hang out together at home...dont mention whose...if he doesnt invite you....you go ahead and invite him....may be later on he might just invite you too...but you know what if we go by the rules then ---it sounds very wrong that you still havent got his phone no!!!
2006-09-10 05:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by roddur 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋