How do you get someone out of your head that you know shouldn't be there??? How do you get past it?
2006-09-10 05:30:26 · 10 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It does end but it is a hard and lengthy process.
You have to start occupying yourself with other things and hang out more with your friends.
If you're out having fun, this person won't be on your mind half as much. There is nothing wrong with remembering the person but having them in your head 24/7 is a problem.
Work on being more social and eventually you'll find someone better as well.
2006-09-10 05:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not have any contact with him for at least 90 days. Do not call or accept any from him. Do not see him avoid him completely for 3 months and then you will find that thoughts of him will become less and less. Life will go on..
2006-09-10 12:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason this person is in your head. Y shouldn't it be there. That is one thing noone else can take from you or know about is your thoughts. Think about what ever you want as long as you don't act on them to get you into trouble.
2006-09-10 12:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by kikosgirl83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to occupy yourself with other activities. If you have based your whole life around this person you are trying to forget, then you may have some pretty big adjustments ahead.
2006-09-10 12:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... thoughts pertaining to an'other' indicate that some realization (with respect to relationship to you personally) is surfacing.
to get past you will need to accept what is the realization (relationship) for you. acceptance returns you to 'you' by realizing of other what is 'relative' . is this clear for you..?
2006-09-10 12:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by noninvultuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about them and get on with your life. It can be really hard to get over certain people but you have no choice so just move on
2006-09-10 12:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
"they shoulden't be there" does not exist.
There are no "must" in life.
If someone is in your head, it's there for a reason.try to find that reason and see what is it really about.
2006-09-10 12:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by xenomorph** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-09-10 12:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by Elise. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it never ends
2006-09-10 12:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time...............
2006-09-10 12:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋