my boyfriend is a 24 years old handsome guy, nice body, healthy habits, and old the good things you can imagen, but he is not too sexually active, i mean, when we are together is great, but is just not to often, he is great on bed, but he does not have the desire to do it more than once a week. Is this bad or is normal?
2006-09-10 04:48:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It is probably normal for him. However he could be under stress at work, with his family or even from his relationship with you. This could arise if he has the feeling you are trying to change him (most women tend to feel they can improve their guy), most men see this as a form of rejection and it can have an effect in the bedroom.
Biologically, you say he has healthy eating habits, this could mean he has a low fat diet, which can reduce the testosterone level. To get the proper fats in his diet he should include about two tablespoons of olive oil, peanut oil or similar (no trans-fats or saturated fats) in his daily intake. The increased testosterone level will cause his body to "burn off" the added calories and then some.
Another requirement is Zinc, a good Men's formula multivitamin will give him part of his required intake without loading him up with potentially toxic levels of iron. Also helpful is an arginine supplement such as GNC ArginMax.
The trick here is how can you get him to try these without "changing him". If his low intensity is a problem for you, he may be willing to "ramp up" his system for you, if that is what it takes to keep you.
But be honest with him and yourself, can you both live with this or will you both be better off if you move on.
2006-09-10 06:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by cut50yearsago 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good, respectful answers.
I might ask -- are you boring in bed? I can ask that safely since I am way over here. But, does he feel desired, does he have to make the first move, is it interesting, is it mechanical, is it always the same, is it only in the dark.
Men are sex demons. Women get so accustomed to being chased that they just feel like all they have to do is show up.
It's easy to get a man, it's hard to keep him!
He needs an eager responsive lover. One who is creative and interesting ... and a little nasty too. But not nasty at the beginning, the thrill is her getting nasty via the process.
If you want to keep him and not have him stray you'll slowly need to change the culture of your relationship and slowly introduce passion, anticipation and romance.
Good luck.
2006-09-10 05:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It’s not good and nor bad. There is no prefixed value about and we can read the concerning statistics only. People aren’t all identical and while a part of them is sexually more active, needing to have more sex acts in a week, others just are alike your b/f. This is one of the stuff giving a perfect agreement inside a relationship, while the most part of the female infidelity just comes for sexual dissatisfaction then. Besides, you have to consider that sex craving decrease with the age.
Despite you like him, it now depends as important sex is for you. I assume you realize as important such question can be for your future.
OK?
2006-09-10 05:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys just have low sex drives. Sometimes life gets in the way and people get busy and tired and just don't have the energy to give it their all, so they would rather wait until they can do it right. Be grateful he is a good lover when it does happen, and maybe over time, you can pick up the pace a bit. Try surprising him in the morning when he is all refreshed from a good night's sleep.
2006-09-10 04:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's probably saving it up the other six days to make it great that one day. Different people are different, some like it twice a day some like it once a month. Normal is whatever feels normal for you ... unless you're a total freak, of course - lol!
2006-09-10 04:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like either of you are really ready for a relationship when mostly you're concerned about the amount of sex you're not getting and the insecurity you're exhibiting with comparing yourself to other skinny women. The weight is not the problem. The problem is that he'd rather spend time hunting EVERY weekend rather than be with you and you'd rather have sex with him rather than BE with him. Back off and cool off. You need to explore your option of what you want to do with YOUR life rather than wait for him to come around. What are YOU doing with your time?
2016-03-27 05:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lorraine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal. In fact, that is a good thing. He's saving his energy for you! Anyway, if you had sex too often, wouldn't it get boring? And if you try and get too much from him, he will probably get exhausted at some point and not enjoy it anymore. That wouldn't be good for his performance either. Have a nice day!
2006-09-10 04:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal.. everyone has a different sex drive. My sister in law only gets it like once every 2 months or so.....
2006-09-10 04:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Camilia,
It's not bad it's normal, love is not about having sex all the time it's about being together and have good times don't worry about it he is fine.
Just talk with him and find out if there is a reason for it there might be and there might not be.
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