I am having flashbacks of my childhood! I can still remember when my dad left home.... He broke our heart... Now I am suffering because of this... So many times I wish there was a way to turn the clock back and change everything!! Now, like Kelly Clarkson (Because of you) I have so many problems with people!!
2006-09-10 04:21:34 · 18 answers · asked by Marmot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks everyone that has given me good comments! I try to get on with my life.. I am trying to pick up the pieces!! I guess is part of learning to live!
2006-09-10 04:35:02 · update #1
very sweet comments lotusbunny...Thanks!!
2006-09-10 04:36:55 · update #2
very sweet comments lotusbunny...Thanks!!
2006-09-10 04:37:22 · update #3
Your life should not be complicated, I assure you your father has already paid for it. Depending on your age, I can tell you the ime is coming where by you are not going to feel the need of a dad, and you will be more independent and mature to handle things in life.
Think of this, there are a lot of children who have been abandoned by their parents, bu I would rather here stories like that rather than the ones about parents abusing their children in every way possible.
If you were to ask God to give happiness, the answer would be that yhour appiness is not up to Him, but up to you. In other words, you choose the way you want to go in life.
I hope you one day find the good for nothing man who walked away from you, and you get to ask him why, and tell him how you felt abou it.
2006-09-10 04:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel so bad, you sound like a thoughtful nice person.
You said you wanted to turn back to clock, but even if you did, do you think your father would have changed his mind?
The fact you are on this site communicating with the outside world shows that you want to talk to people still , which is great.
Life can be wonderful if you choose it to be. But it takes alot of hard work to believe it.
I'm a natural recluse, and I fight locking myself away everyday, but sites like these and forums are a great way to start talking to people again.
I wish you all the best. I'm sure there are alot of people out there that would love to meet you ;)
2006-09-10 11:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by lotusbunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is all in the past. Nothing you can do to change it. Lots of people have things in their past they wished they could change but we all just have to learn to deal with the pain. You have to learn how to forgive your dad and let it all go. You need to be at peace with this in your heart in order to let it go. Learn to forgive him and you will be a better person in the end. Good luck and best wishes. Know in your heart it was not your fault that he left. There may have been many many reasons that he left and you may never know why. All you can say to yourself that it was not your fault and that you forgive him.
2006-09-10 11:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Because of You" is a crock of sh*it lyric. You're just having a pity-party and feeling sorry for yourself; not to mention the fact you blame everything wrong in your life on someone else. The mark of a mature person is the willingness to take responsibility for their actions, which you're not doing. I don't care how you were raised, when you get to be an adult, you can change the things that were wrong in your life. Everyone has that option. You're just choosing to opt out ! Now grow up, and do something positive for yourself! Godloveya!
2006-09-10 11:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot dwell on something that another person did. When you say 'turn the clock back and change everything' - no offense but i really dont think you can change things like that.
Try to say to yourself 'the past is the past' and move on and try to be happy. maybe get a new hobby or something?
2006-09-10 11:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Darren S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget. It will never get you nowhere if you think about the past. Move on think what tomorrow will bring and embrace it and appreciate what the days will bring good and bad.
If you linger on bad things you will never get ahead in life. You will always have anger and resentment. If you let it go you will be a better happier person. Goodluck
2006-09-10 11:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is what you make out of it be yourself live for you. your family
look all around you don't live on the passed. Think what's in front of you. If everyone turn back the clock there will be no wrong in life and life will be BORING so cheer up girl and got on with
it xxx
2006-09-11 06:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by chevyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The clock cant be turn bak..just forget the dark past and look for the bright future. Your father have lots of reason why he did it.. but surely, he is answerable for what he did.. Just keep goin..life is good and beautiful.
2006-09-10 11:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your own fault for not accepting it.Have you ever talk with your father to find out why he really left?May not be his fault.Life is full of ups and downs and it's up to you to understand it,come to terms with it,and not blame someone else for your own short comings.Until you take control of your life you will continue to have problems.What you can live through is suppose to make you stronger,not weak.Get a grip.
2006-09-10 11:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww I am sorry your dad left home when you were young. You can try and make amends by...trying to find him. ( if you don't know where he is) Maybe by forming a relationship with him things can get better. If you don't want to do that I would try talking to someone, find out what you can do to help you through this.
2006-09-10 11:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Just another day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋