ok. here's the story. my bff lindsay, and i alwyas hung out like every day after school and on weekends. but one weekend i was over and her parents started arguing like crazy. we were curled up in her room talking. then her dad came in and said he wanted to talk to her and her bro alone. she walked out slowly and looked at me in horor. she came back in and u could totaly tell she was trying not to cry. suddenly she burst out in tears and just managed to say her parents were getting a divorce. the next day i went home and this was in like febuary. now it's september and i haven't seen her since. i know she still lives there cuz my mom ran into her her mom at the store. her mom told mine that they were probably moving to the bay area! i always try to IM her but she NEVER answers me. i feel terrible! y didn't she talk to me about it?? y didn't she tell me they are moving? :( i know this is long but thanx for reading it! please HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-10 03:53:15 · 5 answers · asked by cAllimac 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, Darlin', I'm so sorry you are both going through some rough stuff right now (keep those last two words in mind...'right now'). Lindsay is probably very embarrassed ... right now. She will get over it.
You are a good friend to keep trying. Yes, it will be hard on you to get silence from her for a while. Don't get mad at her. Her whole world has just come apart. You were there when the first cracks showed up, she needs time to learn to deal with "the end of everything" as she sees it. Be patient, pray for her, and for yourself that you can stick with her.
One last thing, don't talk to your other friends about her problems. If they ask, tell them you think there are changes being made in her life and they are hard ones. After that, they can just ask her if they are dying to know. Don't feed their curiosity. It's really none of their business. That is one good thing you can do for her now.
Hugs to you...you're a great best friend.
2006-09-10 04:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what to tell you to do... but I would keep IMing her and try to call her... maybe she is imbarassed. I wouldnt give up if she was my BFF. Type in and IM or leave a message on the phone saying that you are there for her if she ever needs you. She will come around, just give her time! I hope I have helped you atleast a little bit.
2006-09-10 11:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just need time to get through this but don't give up on her keep trying until she comes around you should go to her house and try to talk to her in person and let her know you are there for her i have a bff and we did not talk for awhile but when she needed me she got a hold of me so just keep trying don't give up
2006-09-10 11:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by pebblez3868 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over to her house and talk to her she may really need you right now.
2006-09-10 11:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her or go to her house if she still lives there and talk to her
2006-09-10 11:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋