there is another guy who supposedly is madly in love with me, but I don't feel the same way, how do i let him down gentally with out hurting his feelings and getting the "You just don't like me cause I'm ill" thrown at me... cause I really want to stay friends with him
2006-09-10 03:48:57 · 4 answers · asked by Roxy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
look the guy in the eye [don't blink] and say " i have to move on and you are not coming with me" end of story. the minute you say this famous quote you have to leave his presence. immediately.
2006-09-10 03:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by veerfish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop downs are never easy, he will get hurt but you can't mess your life because you're afraid he'll be hurt, he will continu his life, tell him that the fault is not with him and it's just that love comes from both sides, convince him that there are other girls that he may like in the future and he will enjoy and nice and beautiful relationship with them..
Good luck
2006-09-10 03:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bassem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and let him know that you love him as a friend only I have a friend who has 2 one works and the other has polo so he doesn't work.She picked the one that works and gets dogged out know.She wished she kept the other because he treated her like a queen
2006-09-10 03:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh.. you should be gentle but forthright with this other guy. tell him u like him as a friend and that you are in love with someone else.
2006-09-10 03:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋