First of all Im not married , I use to think that ,that was wrong but know I think that if I had a chance maybe I would do it, yeah like you guys had a chance dont tell me you would let it pass by?
2006-09-10 03:46:13 · 31 answers · asked by Airforcepink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no
2006-09-10 03:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by ssgtusmc3013 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! I've done alot of things that I'm not proud of, but I have never cheated on a girlfriend, and there is no way I would ever cheat if I was married. I couldn't handle the guilt, I wouldn't put the woman I love through that, and besides, Jesus would know what I did! Cheating is just not worth it! People need to control their hormones.
2006-09-10 10:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by THE DYNAMO FROM OHIO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people deliberately cheat on their spouse for various reasons. Other people when they get married do not have their thoughts on cheating on my spouse they want to be faithful, but circumstances in live presents itself where a person maybe tempted to cheat. People are tempted daily by many things, so even a person that you would never think would cheat could depending on the circumstances. My response is from life experiences.....
2006-09-10 10:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband cheated on me. It was a very painful betrayal. This was the man I had two children with. The man I trusted. The man I loved and considered to be my best friend. He broke the most initimate relationship there is. And there was no way to repair the damage that was done. It hurt me. But worse of all it hurt our children. He is now my ex.
2006-09-10 10:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did cheat, but I also told her I did too. You see, I had a problem and it took me 25 years to figure it out. What was kept inside of me all those years was that I wanted to love and be loved, but looking for it outside of a marriage gone bad was not the answer.
What started off as a bad relationship never healed because I refused to accpet it from the start and carried that burden all those years. In the end...we both divorced. Now she wants back in my life, but we are just talkijng right now. It appears to me that what I was searching for was already at home, I just had concealed it and it becme lost. To bring it oput is too start all over from the beggining before it was closed and re-open that door. That was the secret to infedilites and the cure.
2006-09-10 10:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are 1000's of married couples in the US that have open relationships/swingers.
They all have one thing in common....they will not tolerate cheating/lying.
While that may seem like an oxymoron to you. It's not about the sex, it's about honesty and trust.
Why not choose a partner that is willing to explore your sexuality with you, rather than living a complete lie.
2006-09-10 10:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well im almost 40 and have never been married, just a few girlfriends, but i have never cheated on a girlfriend so i would have to think i surely wouldnt cheat if i was married
2006-09-10 10:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated on my wife, twice, and I am so fortunate that she forgave me and we are a happy family now. The worst thing for a family with children is to have a split family. Don't do it, and if you do , lets hope you don't have kids, and if you do , lets hope you have a forgiving spouse. A way around cheating is to role play, and dress up as strangers, and play act scenarios of infidelity. it is fun
2006-09-10 10:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO!!!
Did it in the past, to my own destruction. It was ME who was messed up, and I hurt other people. I have to live with that now and forever. I am remarried and have learned that LOVE is a verb. You make a commitment and you work at maintaining it. You choose your actions every single day.
Thoughts are things. Choose the good ones.
2006-09-10 11:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by ChinaCat Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny question eh. The truth is, there are women out there that see a man and want to bed him. from that point on the man in question doesn't have a chance. as to cheating? well when the normal male does what a normal does when being pursued by the hot woman i suppose he is cheating. [himself]
2006-09-10 10:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been married a very long time and have never cheated and don't intend to do so.
2006-09-10 10:51:56 · answer #11 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋