2006-09-10 03:44:57 · 27 answers · asked by all about me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First I would sit back and take a good look at my marriage. You are wanting to track your husband to make sure he is not cheating...that right there shows you have trust issues with him. You know in your heart if he is or not. Women normally know because they see the small difference that they do. Also have you caught him in any lies? You don't sound very happy in this marriage, maybe separating is a good option as well.
If you are focused on getting the truth on what he is doing, you can get GPS tracking on his phone, or when he says he going to a certain place go there to see if he is there.
But if you have to do these things..I would definitely sit back and look at my relationship....trust is one of the most important things in a marriage..and obviously you don't trust him.
2006-09-10 03:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Just another day 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you go out on a limb and try to confirm what might be an accurate gut feeling or just jealous insecurities you must first look to yourself. What will you do if he is? Do you have money put aside? Move your assets quietly. Do you plan to change locks or leave? Take what you want from the house and store it. Men we marry turn into strangers when they are caught and the actions you think they would never do will be exactly their reaction. Can you be forgiving if he is? Then be prepared for a long hard road to build up any trust again. Don't let blind ANGER put you in a position to be without means to take care of yourself. If necessary play the role until you can and then leave.
2006-09-10 11:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best device is a private detective and they aren't that expensive and they will get the info that your looking for if it is there. They can be found on line or in the papers or yellow pages. I am talking from experience as I do it part time and I am sure there are plenty in your local area. They do alot of that work and are very good at it. Hopefully he isn't but if he is they will definately show you proof depending on what type of proof you need. Good luck
2006-09-10 10:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are dumb so I am sure that this will be easy enough to prove that he is cheating on you. I know that there is stuff you can buy to hook up to your phone at home and have it record conversations when you are not at home (my ex-brother-in-law did this to my sister in law) so I am sure you could get something for his cell phone as well. Start following him after work. Do the things that a detective would do and I am sure you will get your answers....oh, if you follow him take your camera along so the pictures don't lie. Good luck.
2006-09-10 11:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by lady_bug418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y, even ask dat question, if u believe he is than leave him, but insecurity will break up ur marriage, n just might, if he is not, make ur husband cheat on u. Trust ur heart it never liez. U don't need a trackin device, just look for major differencez in his behavior around u. Good luck n I hope u lose ur insecurity n can b happy in ur relationship!!!
2006-09-10 10:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by KaOz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Radio Shack and ask about some surveillance equipment. They also have neat little listening devices, and thing of that nature. But BEWARE if you do this it might not be what you want to here. I did it and found out it wasn't my wife trying to cheat but my step daughter sabotaging our relationship. I threw it away and never used it again, I let go of my insecurities and put trust back into my marriage. I did set up my step daughter :)) he he.......
2006-09-10 11:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating device-no need for that. Ask him when he comes home about his day and all that. If he does'nt look you in the eye when talking to you, there ya go! Dating a guy like for 6 months. He always looked at his phone, looked a little nervous when asked him certain questions, never looked me in the eye when talking to him.=PLAYER!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-10 12:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you have to track your husband.. I'd say you need to make tracks out the door and find someone else.. What is a marriage that doesn't have trust..
2006-09-10 10:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by waiting4myredemption 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tracking device, if you sense infidelity and you are not the culprit, then thats all the tracking device you need.
2006-09-10 11:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can put a lojac on his car. Men are dumb and leave around enough evidence for you to find out anyway. He has already done something or you would not be suspicious. If you think he is cheating then he is.
2006-09-10 10:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋